Again FAILUR

[kbaxy]

Hello Ladies. Again FAILUR. Again I have faced failur. My periods statr yesterday. I dont understand what exactly goes wrong. I am fed up with this. My huby has no concern with this. He told me that he doing and trying only for the sake of me. otherwise he is happy with my 1st little girl. But I desperately want 2nd one. Again wait for ovulation again do all.... and wait for periods to start. Its a hell thing to wati.. all the time checking weather periods are coming or not. GOD give me a BREAK. No one help me... I am alone......
I was crying last neight but no one was there .........

[kbaxy]

Thanks. I have gone through the site. Its a very beautiful description. very nice. But I have some doubts abt the temps. As I have marked that when temps rises then it is about to ovulate in my case. but as per the description given after ovulation temp. rises. And my cycle is of only 24 days. so my ovulation lasts for few hours (I suspect).
But anyways this will help me lot.

[AnitaRFrith]

I know how you feel.  I just found out I'm pregnant but it took for ever.  I lost twins an one tube before it this time.  Then after I lost my tube, I was pregnant in my left tube, it took almost 2 years for me to get pregnant again.  Has he ever had his sperm count tested.  They make a test for that now that you can get from the drug store.  Its near the prego test.  have you seen a dr?  You may not be having ovulation an may need treatment.  That happened to a friend of mine.  When It is ment to happen it will.  Good luck,  I'll be praying for you.  

[jesslee83]

i don't think you can actually buy a kit for checking your cm....below is a site a student made, and i will warn you now, it can be pretty graphic, as the young lady uses her own body as a part of her experiment.....but she goes through the changes in her cervix and CM from day 1 to the end....maybe it will help you a little...



http://mybeautifulcervix.googlepages.com/

[msgorgeous]

your from india?? i would love to go there one day. the woman wear beautiful colors. you could order the ovulation predictor kits off line if they do not have the in india. im not sure what website to go to tho.im not really knowledgeable about ovulation and such sorry. i do hope yo get your baby :) i wish you the best of luck

[kbaxy]

Thanks a lot for being so nice to me. This group is amazing. everybody is so kind and loving. Special thanks to you also.
I am testing my cervical mucus. but there is no as such any Kit for testing this. I am in India. I will query for it. could you give me its name and company name. will try to get it here.
Love you.

[Latrice414]

kbaxy, i just went threw the same thing, AF came for me yesterday, although i was crying and i thought no one wwas there, i no god was there.  I do beleive he will bless us when its our time, we just want our time to be right now, and its hard to wait for that blessing.  My heart goes out to you, for this was only my first attempt at ttc after my m/c in june, and if i feel this bad, i cant imagine getting BFN month after month.  There is a lot of women who cycles just started who was hoping for BFP and im sure the new post will be up soon for the 2ww, im not sure how im going to approach this the second time around, but it has to be a more relaxing way.

For checking for ovualtion, i take my temps but i really dont go off my temps, i check my cervical mucus and i take the ovulation test 3 days before i think im going to ovulate, and once i get a positive me and fiance gets busy.  We are not doing nothing wrong, its all in the timing when god ssays ok, here is a baby for you.  This is what i have learned being on this forum.  A pregnancy does not always end in a baby, what you want you dont always get or you may not need it, having sex does not always mean you will get pregnant.  I will keep you in my prayers, again dont feel bad, your not doing nothing wrong, we just have to wait for our turn when god bless us.  Keep taking your temps, check your cervical mucus and i would use the ovulation prediction kits also.  Good luck, where in the same boat, and you are not alone:)

[kbaxy]

You are very correct. I know this but.. this but is playing with me. I know my husband also. what you are saying abt him is also true. he is always telling me that GOD has given you one. there are so many other people who dont have that one also. so be happy in what you have. but I want second one for my little girl only. Anways...
Please let me know about OVULATION in more details. If I am missing anything....
Let me tell you that I am measuring Morning temperature of my body. The day it is highest I consider it as Ovulation day. Should I take any medicine for proper ovulation. Please let me know at what exact time I should try. My cycle is of 24 -25 days only. And It ovulates on 17-18 or19th day dont know exactly...
Please guide me properly.

[jesslee83]

sweetie i am truly sorry for you....but that doesn't make you a failure hon.....sometimes when you think your body is doing one thing, it's doing another.....do you know how to fully check yourself for ovulation? like the basal body temp, changes in cervical mucous, your fertile times? i really hope you get to have another baby, and i'm sure you will....also, stressing something like this, can also be a cause of you're not concieving....i know all women tryin to concieve hate hearing this, but sometimes just "letting loose" when it comes to intercourse, rather than focusing on pregnancy, helps alot, and soothes stress as well ;) after all, isn't the most fun "trying" ;)

also, there are months you may not ovulate....that's not your fault, that's your body playing with you.....and i can understand if you're upset with your husband.....this is something very important to you, but at the same time, maybe it's because he secretly gets just as excited as you, but gets down after a negative test also....therefore, he says your daughter is enough because he'd rather focus on the child already there.....wether men like to say it or not, some do get just as upset as their wife or significant other when you hope you're pregnant, and then aren't....they just don't show it, and toss their feelings aside and make it seem like a "whatever" deal, when it's just as important to them as it is you.....