uggg!

[kenziehutch]

So this girl i work with (who is also pregnant, 10 weeks behind me) says I talk about my pregnancy too much. Not only has she talked **** about my pregnancy she talks about my bf and our relationship. I honestly dont talk about it unless im asked, im 20w 3days and I find out this week if im having a boy or a girl. So people are asking me about it a lot more. Ive never done anything to make this girl not like me. Even tho she says i have said things to her, which I havent. Im the girl that keeps to herself. Im on everyones good side. I hate having enemies. Im a dog groomer and we work together in a salon with nothing but women...only two guys work with us. So theres a lot of gossip. Well today I texted her basically asking why she was saying such mean things about me. And she just went to the throat with her responses. Sayjng I need to rethink who my friends are and that if she told me how she really felt about me being pregnant she would make me feel really bad. Just crap like that. I dont know what my pregnancy has to do with her life. I dont know why she feels like she has to bash on me constantly. When I heard she was pregnant I was nothing but nice about it saying I was happy for her..even tho she had only been with this guy for 4 months...I was postitive about it. Ive never said anything bad about her pregnancy. It doesnt bother me if she wants to talk about it (which she does all the time as well). Im just fed up with the gossip and drama. I work with her thats it. Im not asking that we become friends or any of that, I would just like all the smack talk to stop. I shouldnt have to go into work and feel uncomfortable or uneasy...no one should. Shes just the ***** of the salon and she talks **** about everyone. And no one in there has done anything to her to deserve it. Sorry I just really needed to vent...im so stressed out over it and it just feels better to get it off my chest.

[elizabethhhkitty]

Your beautiful and she's jealous! Your pregnancy is important and she is Jealous because your further you have every right to talk about your baby and be excited Eff her

[kenziehutch]

Thank you so much girls! You are all deffinitely right about misery loving company!! I guess you just have to kill them with kindness.

[kenziehutch]

Thank you so much girls! You are all deffinitely right about misery loving company!! I guess you just have to kill them with kindness.

[GordonBaby]

Eh,people like her are everywhere unfortunately. Keep doing what you do dear. Im in a similar boat at work. Im a vet tech in a pretty busy hospital,and the only pregnant person on the staff. My other co-workers are excited for me and ask questions all of the time, but my manager who is bit older and married is trying like hell to get pregnant is actually mad at me because I am pregnant but a single mother. She miscarried around the same time I did so we had eachother to console eachother, and now that I have a healthy pregnancy, she has told people that she thinks im rubbing it in her face, which Im not, I just answer questions that are asked of me at work. Shes miserable in her marriage,hates her job and wants people to think she knows everything. Misery loves company, so dont let her get to you at all. NO ONE CAN TAKE YOUR HAPPY as long as you dont let them!!!!!!!! Congrats on your pregnancy!!!!!!

[gatorgrl12]

Your being the bigger person. And thats already putting your self above her. Things prob are not peachy in her own life so she is going to to deal with it in a negative manner by taking it out on the pretty pregnant girl who has got her **** together. Jealousy can be a terrible burden. I have had this happen to me. And honestly felt bad for the chick who dogged me when i found out what she was going through. This may not be the case with you i kno it really just sounds like a ***** being even worse of a ***** cause her hormones are all jacked up. Just dont take it to heart hun.  

[jen_ortiz]

I'm sure her she's jealous of ur relationship wit ur bf she's only been wit her bd for 4 months n I'm sure its not a good one the guy proubley feels trapped and doesn't want her to keep it, just sayin u don't kno how the relationship is,misery loves company!!!

[katngary143]

Ya thats a good idea I used to be a store manager so when approaching your new manager jusy be like im not trying to gossip or anything but I wanted to tell u about this situation im experiencing with a coworker and I know she is preggers also so hormones can run high and we have been having some conflicting issues just make it kinda biased so u arent completely throwing her under the bus bc its hard when u work in close quarters and I think its important that the new manager experiences it for herself

[kenziehutch]

Kat, yeah one of the girls I work with said that we should start talking about the baby more when she there lol and being a groomer, I love it. I seriously wouldnt want to do anythinf else. It has its moments like every job. But I would think being a nurse or working with people would be worse than picking up the occasional poop on the floor. And with naughty dogs, you just have to have fun with it even tho it gets frustrating.  I would have to say the worst part about it is the owners that have no clue what they are talking about and complain about a haircut everytime. But thats it. And this girl has had multiple complaints...she used to be my manager until she stepped down. Shes very buddy buddy with the management there so if I mention something itll just be a slap on the wrist instead of a writeup. We just got a new salon manager so ill try talking to her about it. And hopefully something will happen.

[arianna92]

Plain n simple she is jealous of u!

[katngary143]

She is obviously jealous girlie clearly bc u r getting all the attention and I mean u are also a very pretty gurl to sorry not a lesbo just saying that also adds into it..u have every right to be excited and I know that this girl flapping her gums would make me upset also and especially since im preggers my hormones are through the roof so I would def say something but just pay no attention and u can just have fun with it like talk more and more about your pregnancy while she is around u just have to laugh at some people and how immature they are..

What is your fave dog to groom ? Is it hard being one? Bc like if dogs dont stay still or try to bite you..my gf just became a dog groomer and she is black and she has to groom this one dog and there is a running joke at the salon that the dog is racists towards her lol the story sounds funny when she explains it but obviously animals are colorblind

[Kaitlind]

Thats really horrible of her, but chin up buttercup! If anything I would talk to the others and ask them to ignore anything she says about you. She sounds like a hater and that (and stress) is the last thing you need right now. Have you spoken to your employer about this? You have the right to file a complaint about her, especially since it sounds like she makes you dread going to work. I hope you can find a way to either deal with this or ignore it, as that popular song goes; don't worry, be happy!