He beats me

[Its_A_Boy2012]

The father of my child is staying with me on house arrest.  Whenever he gets mad he beats me. Not hitting my stomach he doesn't leave bruises or marks but it's causes pain. He is also verbally abusive.  My question is alot of times he slams me on the bed and that's the only thing I'm really concerned by. Is that harmful to my son? He can beat me all he wants just as long as my baby is OK. I only have 9 days til my due date.

[Shanna8210]

Please please get your self out. U said he can hit u but as long as the baby is ok?...NO that's wrong. I no its hard to leave the father of ur child but u are not safe....and ur child is not either. I was in a abusive relationship and trust me it gets worse. If u still want to be with him...make him go get help.

[farO_jan]

I can't believe you said he can beat me all he wants! No one should put their hands on you! Leave him, he doesn't deserve you!!! Your life and your babies life are more important.

[TatiSevani_]

for the women who is saying negative **** about her post need to shut the hell up if havent been in her shoes then you have no right to judge do yall think yall god or something????? nobody has no right to sit up here and bash someone else's life this website suppose to help people not harm people smh yall judgmental people make sick to my damn stomach and yes im pissed and if you something to say then say it to me .

[Its_A_Boy2012]

Yes I am the female that says I would do it on my own and yes this is the sane ******* which bought a car before buying his own son a car seat but I thought he changed from all the visits in jail when I used to go see him but I guess he is worst. I really want my son to have a father and if you check my previous post you will see I have expressed this MANY TIMES. No one knows my situation sorry didn't mean to make this post blow up how it did. I just wanted to ask was my baby safe from me being slammed would never ask my doctor because that's too risky.

[Panush]

No it's not OK if he beats you, have a self respect, how can you love a man like that who treats you like a s**t. I had obusive ex too and left him the next day he raised a hand on me....before he was verbally obusive but that was the end, now I am married with a man who loves and treats me like a Quinn, we have a 2 year old son and expecting our second baby...all I am saying there are many wonderful people in this world, you can't say if he is not gonna be obusive to your baby, and you can't change him Believe me!

[rachyrou]

If you have never been in a violent relationship please stop. ahs a survivor of domestic violence I find some of your posts disgustingly mean and I wish people would learn its obviously not as simple as just leaving. I was threatened and told my family would.die if I ever left. I was only fifteen and stayed because he also said he'd kill me if I left so please be more sympathetic. That being said to the original poster you are carrying his Child ..even if he never hit your child..do you know what happens when q child is brought up.around domestic abuse? They suffer watching their parents..why is a man who beats you better than bringing.this baby into.a happy abuse free home? You will one day find someone else who will be a good role model to your child..by hitting you when you're pregnant he doeant love you..nor respect you..or your child..and I promise when he says he will change that never happens. Abusers are always abusers..get out now or I swear one say this scum bag of a man will take it to the next level and will kill you.