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4528412 tn?1357069833

VENT :(

So you know how us pregnant women are very emotional during our pregnancy .. well my hubby literally won't allow me to be emotional or have any feelings other than to just be happy . Basically when I'm sad or mad he wants me to just smile and act like everything is fine .. I can't control how I feel and if I get mad or start to cry he acts like he doesn't care and says he wants to separate .. plus his mother can be so cruel towards me and he allows it or if I say something she doesn't respect me or my feelings and he lets her & when I express to him how I feel he yells and curses at me and just blows me off .. ugh I'm so sad right now . Sorry guys just needed to vent . :(
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3224409 tn?1356206827
Lol... I thought when husband care abt there baby they change... But i guess i m wrong... Thy can become j*erks... I would open up his ears.. By telling him  his reaction towards you can harm ur unborn child... Whats more important ur baby or other people. . I know its a sympathy card but sometimes husband need a lil push...
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4528412 tn?1357069833
Thanks ladies :) I spoke to him and feel better
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4045844 tn?1356308927
Tell him to stuff it and do something feel good for yourself. If you let him continue telling you how you can feel you will always be miserable. And his mom needs to not be involved don't listen to her at all
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First off, he cant not allow you to be emotional. Girl if you wanna cry,cry or yell or laugh! Your pregnant an filled with extra hormones you cant control. Second, him an his mother needs a wakeup call, you should never treat someone you love mean or be nasty because you dont understand what there going through. Ive never been in such a position so i have no advice other then keep your head up,an enjoy your pregnancy! Don't let them bring you to such a place of hurt or pain.
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