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1935851 tn?1332348173

Heartless?

So I'm nineteen weeks plus with a baby girl. We just found out it was a girl yesterday. I noticed that I don't cry at my ultrasounds, I always hear about women crying when they hear the heartbeat or see the baby but I didn't. Am I heartless?
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1901977 tn?1333991726
I cry when I run outa pickles lol, but not at ultrasounds. I do a lot of smiling, I think she's the best thing ever...but never a tear. I don't think there are really right or wrong emotions when it comes to pregnancy and our hormones.
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2006603 tn?1331329327
I didnt cry at my ultrasounds. I smiled the whole time and couldnt quit smiling.
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1790045 tn?1317184484
With my son I don't remember crying at everyone just my first. Then we had 3 miscarriages and with my current pregnancy I'm 37 weeks and get monthly ultrasounds and cry every time. Even when they only use the Doppler I get emotional. I'm not usually emotional but with hormones and everything we've been through its hard not to.
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689528 tn?1364135841
I haven't cried at any of my ultrasounds!
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1999115 tn?1332265324
I didnt cry, at either of my ultrasounds.. I was extremely excited tho.
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I cry with my first baby when I heard the heartbeat......
It was beautiful......  :,),,,,
Second no more tears
Third cried again (no hearth beat)
Forth did not hear the heart beat only saw it in the ultrasound.....why? I don't know
 I was just glad he had a heartbeat....  :)
Not till 23w & 3d 
but that late in my pregnancy wasn't as special anymore
(My dr loves ultrasound) :(
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