How to make him see?

[blandsiedel]

Hi everyone, I just hit my 10 week mark and I just want to know what the best way us to explain to someone how blah I am feeling. I am constantly nauseous and throw up at least 2 times a day but if I'm not snacking on things it's much more. I am always exhausted and by the time I get home from work all I want to do is shower and go to sleep. I have started getting dizzy to the point where it makes me even more nauseous which is not helping me at all. I get extremely frustrated bc I try to explain how much it is for me to get up in the morning bc of how sick I feel but I get told I'm not taking care of the baby and I'm not doing the right things. Also a huge thing is that it really a stuggle for me to stay up past 9:30-10 and and if I don't get around 10 hours of sleep I struggle to make it through the following day of work which is causing stress and problems in my relationship bc I'm normally asleep when he gets home from work and have no energy to drive to pick him up from work. It cause so much stress bc he feels I'm not being there for him but I try to explain how exhausted and sick I feel and how much it means to me that he is getting a ride and how important it is that we spend every night that he does not work late together. How else can I explain how I'm feeling so he can really see?

[due22jan15]

Well my boyfriend didnt beleave me that I wasnt feeling so un well untill I started to throw up in the toilet and the shower I got night sickness so it wasnt good I couldnt cook dinner or bath my three kids he did it all for three months I did help when I could move but  i got that bad I was shaking after I got sick and he worked throughout the day

[kmac91]

Seriously guys just don't get it. That was me to a T. But it cleared up by 15 weeks and my whole first trimester I was planning my wedding =/ i wish guys were more observant and see that we are sick and that we don't feel good but guys will be guys. When you get those first ultrasounds where it looks like a baby things change (at least for me it did) they realize your making a life inside of you and it's not easy work.

[due22jan15]

Take him to the doctors next time when you go it might help and explain to doctor how you have been feeling and see what she can do to help and them while you boyfriend is there he might see the reason why your not up to things atm itz all I can think of sorry but I would give it a try if you do let thus let me know how it goes xxx