need some advice

[3smii]

So iam 36 weeks pregnant with my first baby my and my bf been together for almost 9 years ...anyways 1 week ago I was looking thru his phone and found a video of him haveing sex with another women and this broke me down in tears and I confronted him and he said it was a accident and won't do it again but I don't believe him iam so stressed out on what to do :'(

[3smii]

Thanks I think I might just leave him after the baby is born

[anxiousmommy2be]

I would leave him quick! I could see if you found some texts or pics from another girl but to find an actual video...oh no! That's so disrespectful! I understand u guys have been together a long time but why would u want to stay in a relationship where u have to wonder everyday if he's faithful or not..he can still be in your child's life and leave it at that..easier said than done I know but do what makes u happy.. just don't stress

[tmarie1230]

Going thru almost the same thing. Its the hardest thing in the world . I totally feel for u. Everybody tells me to leave him n I have . Its been almost 2 weeks but I don't want to not be with him as much as it kills me. It really comes down to wether u think its gna happen again and if u think ull ever be able to move past it.

[baby_love2014]

Accidents like that don't happen...he's a bigger idiot for recording it. I would leave him and get him for child support once the baby is born. He's probably done it more than once. It's up to you whether you want your child to grow up around someone like him. I'd rather be a single parent then deal with someone unfaithful.