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I HATE my husband!
Sorry this is so long, I just need to vent!!!
I ended up in Labor & Delivery at about 3am Friday morning with horrible contractions. I can understand that DH was tired and a little cranky and we basically had to stay there all day yesterday while they gave me meds to get my contractions under control. I had to beg my doc to let me come home after about 7pm he finally agreed as long as I come into the office on Monday.
This morning after we all got up (even tho I'm on strict bedrest with bathroom priviledges) I fixed breakfast and thought today would be a good day. I asked him so nicely "if you seperate the clothes in the laundry room I'll wash them". I got an attitude b/c of that. I did it myself. Then I asked will you load the dishwasher with the breakfast dishes; more attitude. I did that myself. I asked can you take the boys to get a haircut before the barbershop gets over crowded. I was told well let me just take a shower and shave my head (he's bald) and I'll do it when I get out. Needless to say by the time he got out the shower we were at the barbershop half way finished. When I came thru the door he's fussing at me about "doing too much". I just broke out into tears and locked myself in the bathroom.
The doc looked him in the eye and made him promise to help around the house so I can rest. I shouldnt have to beg that a**hole to take pride in his home. After I discovered my words and tears were falling on deaf ears I just cleaned the whole house byself and now I'm contracting again. I told him point blank if anything happens to this baby the full responsibility will be on him. He's the most selfish person I think I've ever had to endure, and this is truly something that came out after the wedding. He went along just to get along, and ladies point blank we're just not getting along.
I'm thinking about leaving! Most of the time I'm not happy with him. He's an over the road truck driver so he's only really home on Sat & Sun. I dont think it's the hormones. When I hear his key hit the door I just pretend like I'm sleep b/c I'd rather get bed sores ignoring him, then have to look him in the face and talk to him. AM I WRONG? IS IT THE HORMONES? HELP QUICK?
I ended up in Labor & Delivery at about 3am Friday morning with horrible contractions. I can understand that DH was tired and a little cranky and we basically had to stay there all day yesterday while they gave me meds to get my contractions under control. I had to beg my doc to let me come home after about 7pm he finally agreed as long as I come into the office on Monday.
This morning after we all got up (even tho I'm on strict bedrest with bathroom priviledges) I fixed breakfast and thought today would be a good day. I asked him so nicely "if you seperate the clothes in the laundry room I'll wash them". I got an attitude b/c of that. I did it myself. Then I asked will you load the dishwasher with the breakfast dishes; more attitude. I did that myself. I asked can you take the boys to get a haircut before the barbershop gets over crowded. I was told well let me just take a shower and shave my head (he's bald) and I'll do it when I get out. Needless to say by the time he got out the shower we were at the barbershop half way finished. When I came thru the door he's fussing at me about "doing too much". I just broke out into tears and locked myself in the bathroom.
The doc looked him in the eye and made him promise to help around the house so I can rest. I shouldnt have to beg that a**hole to take pride in his home. After I discovered my words and tears were falling on deaf ears I just cleaned the whole house byself and now I'm contracting again. I told him point blank if anything happens to this baby the full responsibility will be on him. He's the most selfish person I think I've ever had to endure, and this is truly something that came out after the wedding. He went along just to get along, and ladies point blank we're just not getting along.
I'm thinking about leaving! Most of the time I'm not happy with him. He's an over the road truck driver so he's only really home on Sat & Sun. I dont think it's the hormones. When I hear his key hit the door I just pretend like I'm sleep b/c I'd rather get bed sores ignoring him, then have to look him in the face and talk to him. AM I WRONG? IS IT THE HORMONES? HELP QUICK?
Well I was hoping that all pregnant women who posted on here would be out of that hormonal mess and could tell me if it does or not get better
My suggestion is to create your own post for your question s- because I opened it and got completely distracted from the posts above - not even realizing they are 2 years old.. Unfortunately things never go back to the way they were before pregnancy - when the baby is born there is lack of sleep, sex, time - etc. The hormones hopefully will die down but you will need to work with her to find creative times to spend that one on one you miss.
Good Luck!
Good Luck!
You should start a new thread, This thread is 2+ years old, & I don't think you will get much advice posting on this old thread.
And I cannot answer your question about "will everything be normal post pregnancy?' all I can say is hang in there. Pregnancy is insanely difficult, and I know I was very nasty at times, and I honestly COULD NOT control it. I hope all turns out well for you & your little family.
And I cannot answer your question about "will everything be normal post pregnancy?' all I can say is hang in there. Pregnancy is insanely difficult, and I know I was very nasty at times, and I honestly COULD NOT control it. I hope all turns out well for you & your little family.
Hi, I'm a father to be, my wife is 15-16 weeks pregnant, and she turned into this mean, cold hearted monster.
Before she got pregnant we were like teenagers, crazy in love. We couldn't be 1 min appart without texting or calling each other.
We planned this baby, after we found out she was pregnant everything started going downhill.
She stopped calling and texting, next she stopped telling me she loves me...next thing I hear from her is that she hates me!!!
She doesn't wanna be around me, she wants out of marriage and she even said a few times she doesn't want the baby.
At first I thought that's it, the woman who I would die for doesn't want me anymore, then I did some research (that's how I ended up here)
And found out its her hormones, so it made me feel better, then she calmed down a bit, she'll say she loves me now and then so I deff understand
Its the pregnancy. But oh man am I glad I didn't listen to her when she told me she wanted out of marriage, I told her I will NOT give up on us.
Now my question is...does everything go back to normal after the pregnancy? I mean I loved how we used to be and I miss those days.
Somebody please give me your experience or oppinion
Thanks
Before she got pregnant we were like teenagers, crazy in love. We couldn't be 1 min appart without texting or calling each other.
We planned this baby, after we found out she was pregnant everything started going downhill.
She stopped calling and texting, next she stopped telling me she loves me...next thing I hear from her is that she hates me!!!
She doesn't wanna be around me, she wants out of marriage and she even said a few times she doesn't want the baby.
At first I thought that's it, the woman who I would die for doesn't want me anymore, then I did some research (that's how I ended up here)
And found out its her hormones, so it made me feel better, then she calmed down a bit, she'll say she loves me now and then so I deff understand
Its the pregnancy. But oh man am I glad I didn't listen to her when she told me she wanted out of marriage, I told her I will NOT give up on us.
Now my question is...does everything go back to normal after the pregnancy? I mean I loved how we used to be and I miss those days.
Somebody please give me your experience or oppinion
Thanks
LOL yeah but whats it called for them? why have they not diagnosed this problem for them yet, like they did pms for women? lol then we could just say, ohh its that time of month baby, its JUST your hormones :) haha. i guess my hubby does have a stressful job and thats the source of it sometimes, men just dont handle stress the way we do...
Luv2bmommy~ I think guys have it because a few days out of the month my DH will be in such a cruddy mood... I wanna hurt him. lol. (midol won't harm him, but try IBprofen or tylenol) lol.... My dh takes both regularly when he gets headaches or sore muscles.. etc.
Sometimes cooking him a good dinner will break his funk.
Sometimes cooking him a good dinner will break his funk.
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