I decided that I'm gonna tell my mom I'm pregnant!

[Aaliyah__2]

I'm 19 pregnant with my second I decided I'm gonna move out by Monday at my bds house. Ik my mom is gonna b wondering where I'm at I can't face her and tell her cause Ik she will argue with me so I decided I will just text it to her.

[Aaliyah__2]

She probably will still call me or text me after reading the letter.

[rebeccaann11]

I hope everything works out for you. You know your mom better than us. if I had to pick between a letter or a text. I would pick a letter. Because a text message To her she can call you, then you have to hear it either way.

[Aaliyah__2]

Thanks. But the reason I said that I would text her cause ik how my mom is . And I'm not trying to tell her to get face because I already know what she's gonna say it's gonna make me even more stressed a letter or a text is kinda of the same thing to me either way she's gonna have to read it and I'm guessing both ways are childish but I gotta do what I gotta do

[rebeccaann11]

good luck :)

[rebeccaann11]

what I've learned from experience. It's a lot easier to write down everything down on a piece of paper. You can write down what your goals are. How you plan on taking care of the babies. How everything's going to be done. Just write down everything on the paper so you can view it. And if somehow you can talk to your mom face to face you'll be able to say well this is what I have planned and this is how I plan on doing it.

[danie_3]

I think that if you feel that you can't verbally tell your mom how you feel and what you plans are then at least write her a letter telling her how you feel and what your plans are (make it personal) NO TEXT and also why you couldn't have a sit down with her and that you love and appreciate her. Please don't burn a bridge between you two because you never know where life will led you and you may need her so don't be sneaky because you just leaving looks childish and sneaky. I wish you the best but be sincere and smart about it...

[Aaliyah__2]

I'm gonna tell her I'm scared I just think I should move out first before I tell her because things r gonna get bad. She's very judgemental and she talks about me and my sisters and brother in a bad way. So I might text her the day I'm out.

[clau8909]

Its better to let her know some how im a mother with two kids ..i did dat a few time with out her knowing.... and i didnt know wat shes going threw until one day my sister did the same she just let ..didnt say anything.. i got to see wat my mom is.going threw.. with her... and it hurts... i wpuldnt want my daughter to do dat to me suffer woundering were shes at... i would rather her tell me.. rather den not  telling me... let her know yes she will be mad argure with u but let her know this is wat u want ...

[oct3014]

Good luck hopefully your mom comes around and you all can enjoy this pregnancy as a family!