what do I do??????

[jessi82113]

I know this is for 18 and up but I am 17 and in need of some advice. I am 4 weeks along  and the father of my baby left right after we had sex.  Me and my boyfriend got together to if HR before I found out I was pregnant he has been telling everyone at our work that he is the dad.....everyone is bullying me because they are saying I don't know who my babies dad is because they thought it was my ex. Any help?  

[Fifi_loves]

Let him know the truth before anyone gets hurt even more. Make sure you both have a commication between each other and be open about it.

[mommiKat]

If you haven't already,  now is a good time to tell your boyfriend that there is a chance he may not be the father. If he really loves you & wants to be with u he will stay & be a father to your baby anyway. Be honest & leave nothing out,  he deserves to know the truth.  As for the ones bullying you,  they can go to hell. Long as you & Your boyfriend know the possibility, that's all that matters.  You stand up for yourself & tell them to stay out of your business. & if possible get away from those type of ppl. You have a child to protect & love now. I wish u the best & I'm sure everything will work out in due time :)

[meganstewart22]

Well I think you can get a dna test while pregnant but I'm not to sure how far along you have to be. Maybe look it up on Google. But I would just be honest with your bf and tell him what's going on because its a hard situation and you don't want to put stress on yourself! Good luck and I hope it works out