I don't know what to do anymore .. Need to talk to someone :'(

[Cheyenne__19]

I was frienemies with my boyfriends ex ..  We started dating after she was 7 months pregnant & "happy" .. She said she was happy for us ect ..  Turns out I'm 32 weeks pregnant & her son is my boyfriends .. I knew they had slept together once while her & her boyfriend broke up for a week .. But really never thought her & I would have the same baby daddy .. Also she caused a lot of problems between us & is still texting my boyfriend .. Even though he says he doesn't talk to her , I looked @ his recent phone records & her number was on there twice .. The calls were very short .. 1-3mins ..   I don't know what to do :(
He's never around , he's addicted to a stupid game & spends all of his time on that .. I haven't seen him for a week now .. Everything I do on my own, I'm 24 years old with a 5 year old and a little baby girl on the way .. Who I know I'll fall in love with.
Also the ex won't get a DNA test ..  But apparently the kids his even though he still has visits with his "dad" .. & looks nothing like him , he's my boyfriends son I know he is ...  I just feel so sick to my stomach about everything :'(

[stephannieluvv]

:( that's so sad. . .

[Cheyenne__19]

I have no contact information on the "baby daddy".
.... just know he's haspanic & the kid has blonde hair blue eyes & white ...  Looks absolutely nothing like the dad.
looks more like my boyfriend then him.

[stephannieluvv]

So than maybe you should contact the "baby daddy" and tell him about it. Than he can demand a DNA test since he's paying child support & supporting the child... Unless you just want to leave it as it is? Idk tough situation :/

[Cheyenne__19]

But she refuses to get a DNA test ..  & he has nothing to do with the child, because the "baby daddy" has been in his life since he was born, because as sad as it sounds .. He still thinks the child is his.
& pays child support for the child , takes him every single weekend ... My boyfriend has no part.
Just because it's his DNA doesn't make him the kids dad, he wasn't even around.
I'm just all alone & so depressed .. All I do is cry wondering why this happened to me :(

[stephannieluvv]

Ohh no!! :( what a crappy situation!! I'm sorry your having to deal with that hun!! You have to do something about it if the kid is his than you have to deal with it or move on as hard as it will be! You know what's right and wrong do whatever you feels best... Good luck

[MrsPerryman]

I'm sorry to hear that but she has the right to call him if they have a child together

[Sallysha]

Hope it works out for you tho

[Sallysha]

Woow, you need to find a way to deal with it Hun, it ***** but you can't expect him to Stop communicating with her because of his son they have a kid together so its a tough situation you guys deal with it but know where to draw the line or if you can't deal with it you just gotta pick up and move on