UPDATE: MY shower was awesome :). Out started at 12 but didn't really get going until like 230. My family suck art planning things but it was funny and great. It became more than ten people around three. By the end it was at least twenty guest in total. At 5pm. But we had a blast, everyone was gorgeous. It really made my appreciate everyone who came. My heart felt so full.
Mines is sunday. I'm super nervous. I'm not with the father but he wants to be part of it since he is going to be there for his child. But most of it is his family that I don't know and never met. I've only met his parents once and his sisters a few times. I have his sister making me feel self concious because I'm not wearing a dress instead just leggings and a nice blouse but apparently it's not dressy enough.
We both have such big families so there will be about 90-100 people there so it's so nerve wracking for me. Plus I feel like it's going to be slightly awkward, the fact I have to spend the day with the father and we aren't together. Or even really friends anymore.
Lol. Yea i was only expecting 15 ppl at the most 30 invites went out. Maybe about five people have said they have gifts but wont make it to the actual event. I havent included friends of my moms, or sisters but i hope its a good amount. Both of my two sisters had at least 15-20< people. I feel like its so hard to follow. I dont even have a fb or ig to advertise w.
My shower is next Saturday & I'm having those thoughts too lol. A few people who are unable to make it sent their gift so that's keeping my hopes up a little.
Youll have a blast with the ppl you invited & especially the gifts youll be getting having mine in a month :)
I freaked about my baby shower and was extremely nervous about everything! Everything turned out great and everyone had a great time! Don't worry! Trust me it'll be great and you'll have a ton of fun :) let us know how it goes!