I pushed my pregnant girlfriend?

[S2BFather]

I am very sorry, we were arguing because she didn't like my work hours? I work in the banking industry, we work early mornings to late nights. So we were arguing and I told her to stop bitching or to go live with her deraged parents, if she has a problem. (It was late, and I was tired, I didn't mean it, and she moved in with me, due to the fact that her parents argue 24/7) She flipped and threw stuff at me, I decided to walk out of the bedroom and she tried to grab my arm, and I pushed her with it, against the wall. Its been six days, and she went to the doctor yesterday, complaining about her stomach hurting, When i came home late, she didn't even tell me, Her friend told me about it. She ignores everything i DO. She doesn't cook my dinner, or my breakfast, yet still uses my card to pay for everything she wants

I don't know how much I hurt her, I'm 6ft4, I am 189lbs (Muscle) I only used one hand. I love her, but I cant afford to stop working, I get £52,000 a YEAR. and I am only 22. Missing days of work just isn't good for me. I tried explaining that to her she said "I understand." and walked away. I don't want her to be mad at me like this, But i don't want to cause her stress, also due to the fact of me working late, I am also afraid she might cheat.

[nichole75315]

I wouldn't worry at all. It's probably a cry for attention. Try to find time to talk... Cuddle... Be supportive. Apologize. It gets much harder with a baby. This is just a step towards growing up. Props to you for manning up!

[laceylace_2004]

While you shouldn't have laid hands on her, she will be ok. When i was pregnant with our first son, my husband and I got into a huge fight about my mother in law. I tried leaving, and he grabbed my arm and kinda shoved me into the vehicle to squeeze so i couldn't get in the a door. The only time to be worried is if you used extreme measures like hitting and kicking her in her stomach. Now here is my marital advice with a toddler and a new baby on the way. You both need to be mature adults when arguing. All the yelling and fighting will damage your relationship, and it will hurt your child seeing that. Y'all need to have a good date night one night and talk in a civil manner with good intentions, and be able to give a little, loose a little. Surprise her by taking off work early and bringing her home flowers or something. A committed relationship takes work from both sides. My husband and I almost divorced last year, and we went through hell to save it for our son because we both decided that he deserved a better life than we did and both his parents together. I now stay at home with him while my husband works, and i am expected to keep a clean house, be a good momma to our children, and cook the majority of the meals. Good luck to you, and hope y'all can work it out.

[PriceFamily91611]

HOW FAR ALONG IS SHE? IS SHE STILL LIVING WITH YOU? SHE NEEDS TO GROW UP AND REALIZE YOU ARE SUPPORTING HER AND YOU DONT HAVE TO, SHES NOT WORKING I TAKE IT? YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE PUSHED HER BUT SHE NEEDS TO GROW UP!!! GET OVER THAT YOU ARE WORKING TO SUPPORT YOUR FAMILY