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IM SO DONE

I'm sorry for this rant but I need support. :( I can't freaking walk! I'm in so much pain,, she is so low that every bump we hit in the car feels like she's just gonna come sliding out! Dr put me on bed rest for these last 3w and I have no idea how to handle it. I'm usually the one that does everything around the house, I cook and clean and take care of my mom and bf and to be put on bed rest makes me feel so useless. They keep telling me it's ok to be waited on but I feel like I'm neglecting them. My mom was a single mom my whole life so I took up the housework and cooking, and seriously between the two of them all they can cook is rice in a rice cooker and frozen meals :/ I feel so bad. And I'm just in so much pain. I can't put pants on or sit/stand by myself I can't roll over in bed without help and walking to the bathroom feels like I'm breaking bones. I've tried talking to them about how I feel but my mom just laughs and says " everyone is done with being pregnant at this point" and my bf just doesn't understand. I just want her out :,( and I can't do any of the healthy things to self induce cause I can't move. And I'm allergic to pineapple so that's out ugh!!
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Yes it's spd but there's nothing dr can do for it, I won't take narcotics. The only option is to have the baby. I'm having some mean contractions tonight so maybe I'll get my wish
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Im going on 28 weeks and my pelvis, hips and legs are always in pain. it hurts to roll over in bed and sometimes i can barely move and get out of bed. i jave a doctors appointment ina couple days and hopfully find out whats foing on.
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Sounds like SPD. I've also been experiencing this pain and it hurts so bad. I had this with my last pregnancy and it took about two weeks for the pain to stop after I delivered.
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I know how you feel. I've been in bed all week long. Something as simple as turning over on my opposite side or getting up to use the restroom feels as if I've broken my hips. I literally hear and feel a pop every time I move..I'm 38+6 and DONE !
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