IS MY MIND PLAYING TRICKS ON ME?

[bancake]

DURING THE END OF MY SECOND TRIMESTER, I ALWAYS FELT LIKE MY HUBBY WAS CHEATING ON ME. NOBODY COULD TELL ME DIFFERENT. NOW THAT I'M IN MY THIRD TRIMESTER THE FEELING COMES AND GOES. I'VE ALWAYS BEEN VERY JEALOUS HEARTED, BUT IT SEEMS LIKE ITS WORST NOW. THE CRAZY THING ABOUT IT IS I REALLY CAN'T HONESTLY SAY I HAVE A REASON TO BELIEVE THAT HE'S CHEATING. I DON'T TRUST MEN AT ALL. SO I'M WONDERING IF ANYONE ELSE IS FEELING THIS WAY OR  IS IT JUST ME!!!!! PLEASE HELP!!!

[JoyRenee]

Pregnancy hormones are crazy, not you. Just try to relax and not accuse him.

[faith2086]

ur not alone.."micheal jackson"lol..any way ur not..im not preggo but every women thinks it at some point mainly when things are going so perfect it seems like something is going on..sometimes u just have to chill.. i learned not to look for problems..long as im doing my part..if something is going on let it come to u..dont look for trouble. u will only hurt urself and blame urself..a lady once told me men cheat when women are pregnant u know whuats the funny part i was wit her son..ex bf..but he was cool.. but so cool he called a friend of mine trying to flirt..she told me i left him and did not feel bad..in ur case ur talking about a hubby..and god forbid he is cheating u cant just walk away..do ur homework are u still being that woman he met from day 1 or have u giving him reason to go else where..but breath and worry about u baby not  problems..

[bancake]

I try not to let this take a toll on me and my relationship but its so hard. But some days I think I look for reasons to be mean to him. But then later I try and convince myself that he deserve it. I feel so bad, but its like I can't even force myself to apologize to him. I can't wait to deliver my baby because this is really making me crazy. I have two other kids and I didn't have to go through this, but then again it was ten years ago that I gave birth to a baby. When I have this baby I throwing a party! LOL!

[Heatherm4]

Hi laides....the best thing I think you should do is just communicate with your men. Hormones can drive us CRAZY at times and men...they just can't tell what we're thinking!! LOL If you have no reason to believe that he's cheating then he probably isn't. Fear and anxiety is just getting the best of you! And I've heard that most of our dreams..well actually nightmares are based on our fears.
Good luck and I hope you have amazing pregnancies!! :)

[VaniDavila]

Don't feel bad, I'm the same right now. I am 14 weeks and for the past few weeks I have been dreaming that my husband is cheating on me. I even wake up mad at him. He hasn't given me any reason, but it's just a feelingand the dreams combined that make me think he is cheating and I have been more jealous like I always ask him why he get's home 10 minutes late or who is he talking on the phone with. I don't know if it's normal and I try not to show him that I'm jealous, but sometimes I can't help it. I just hope this doesn't ruin my marriage!