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hurtful boyfriend:(
My boyfriend is so hurtful! For the past month he has been really rude and mean, saying all kinds of awful things . I just don't know what to make out of it all. He has been saying awful things about our unborn son. I'm 30 weeks and this will be our first child. About a month ago he started saying these hurtful things to me like... he hates our son, he's ruining our relationship, he doesn't want him just me, it's your fault your pregnant I wanted you to get an abortion, put him up for adoption so it can just be the two of us, I won't ever love him, he's just going to ruin my life. But for the past week it's like he says it so much everyday just to hurt me. It has stressed me out so bad two days ago he had me in tears all day long with it to were I was having contrations and had to go to L&D and they had to give me two shots and a pill to stop labor. He knows all this stress isn't good for me and it's just hurting me and the baby I'm on bed rest and pelvic rest now but he just continues with all this non since. He even started all of this at our baby shower and it was so embarrassing! I just want to give up. It tears me to pieces because I don't know my real dad my real mom was in and out of my life my grandparents raised me, and he thinks that he can just bail and it won't effect our baby saying he would never know and it just hurts me so bad, because I love him and my son I just wish he would grow up. :(
You should leave him before the emotional and verbal abuse turns to physical abuse. He sounds like he has mental problems.
Leave. Dont ever think you cant do it in your own. There is so much support for single parents and money isnt an issue you have enough to cover yourself off benefits. You have to put your son first, if he cared he wouldnt speak to u and about your son like this. It wont get any better when his born. Probably worse.
He says he wants me just not the baby, since I can't get an abortion at 30 weeks we should put him up for adoption. And that just breaks my heart I would never do that. It feel like he is jealous of the baby so he is trying to make me chose between him and our son.
He says he never wanted a baby from the beginning and he just acted like he was happy, says he is forced to be in our child's life because he's family would hate him if he bailed on his kid. He even tells his mom this stuff and has her in tears over it and he just says I can't help How I feel. I have tried talking to him about it and he will just start yelling and cursing over it and I will walk away he's one of those kind of guys that loves to follow you around agging it on. He just says he's not ready to give his life up for 18 years and having someone depend on him because he can't keep a job. I'm just to the point where I want to move back into my mom's, but I know he will be calling me begging me to come back. Just seems like he loves playing games
Wow. He doesnt deserve you or your son. Maybe he's trying to get YOU to break up with HIM so he wont look or feel bad leaving you pregnant and whatnot.
ask him why he's being hateful all of a sudden? talk to him about it and if he starts with the it's your fault stuff ignore it and stay on topic on why he's acting that way and every time he starts it ask him politely to leave the room and if he doesn't then you leave the room and ask for a few alone because you don't need that stress and he doesn't need to be putting that amount on you
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