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Mom and boyfriend

Hi everyone so my Mom and boyfriend got into a huge arguement my mom doesn't like my boyfriend but I don't want to feel I have to pick from the two I love both of them like crazy so since there arguement my parents say I shouldn't be with him but I love him and having his child wat should I do???
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I went threw that my mom liked him then hated him they argued all the time. They butt heads really bad but my fiance has learned that family means a lot to me and I will always side with the correct person not always him. He has also learned after 3 years of dealing with my mom being like this that their are just some things you need to let go and not argue over. He comes to me and talks to me when he's frustrated or upset now instead of yelling at her or making matters worse.
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You don't need to pick sides. You're  all adults and they shouldn't make you choose. I understand exactly what you're going through. My mom and fiancée hate each other. They have gotten into plenty of arguments over the last 2 years and my mom even argued with me and acted all dramatic because I'm still with him. He's s good guy and I do love him plus he's the father of my child. My mom is super immature and never sees herself as wrong, she's always the victim. I love her as well but I definitely don't like her actions. My fiancée has always apologized for what he says, even though it's true while my mom says that she will not apologize and we can get over it. So it's pretty awkward when we're in the same room. But like I told them, I love them both and they really need to grow up because it's me that's hurting from it all.
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They should respect that you don't want to leave him because of there differences Iwould tell my be that he needs to apologize and be a man even if she was wrong I know it doesn't sound fair but if you want price he's going to have to suck it iup and apologize unless it was a serious fight where she was completely out of line
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Me and my baby's father mom argue a million times through out the whole 5 yrs we were together, u don't have to leave him just cuz of a argument. I used to called her a bad mom n everything. Just when things aren't calm down maybe dey both can talk and he can apologize.
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