Aa
LONG RANT.
My boyfriend's mother is a drug addict, she lives on the streets & and comes over to eat, and sometimes to feed the kids. She had $900 in food stamps, and only allows my boyfriend GREAT GRANDMA to spend $200 if she goes over she has to pay her in cash. Isn't that ****** up? She's 82 years old taking care of YOUR KIDS, why can't she spend all your food stamps? It's MEANT FOR THE KIDS. It's sad, my boyfriend GREAT grandpa died just a month ago and she barely has any money to take care of these kids anymore. I don't know why the grandma feels bad for a horrible person, I wouldn't even allow this druggie in my home. My boyfriends mother is on probation if she gets caught doing drugs she'll be locked up for four years. I just want to turn her in, it's better to have no mother than have to see your mom being a druggie. AND I just found out the mother does drugs infront of her 6 yr old daughter. It's so sickning. Idk why anyone would feel bad for her.
Im with you there @Mommy2be. My babies dad is a druggie and I put my foot down earlier this week saying that he will not get to see his second child. I didnt know about it or I would never have gotten with him.
Oh it's fine don't feel sorry for me, I'm just sorry for her that she won't be seeing her first grand child. I'm sorry but no druggy is being around my child not now, not ever. Its so nasty to even think about.
You dont! I can't believe this woman Is gonna be a grandma and is a druggy! Hopefully one day she will grow up. But probably not. I'm sorry you have to go through that.
@jmb4611 check your messages (=
@Rebecca I've done that, I told my boyfriend these kids ain't staying with us when the grandma dies, I can't stand rotten kids who get everything they want and still act up. & of course I am keeping them away including the mother away from my child, I don't need filthy people touching my baby.
@Rebecca I've done that, I told my boyfriend these kids ain't staying with us when the grandma dies, I can't stand rotten kids who get everything they want and still act up. & of course I am keeping them away including the mother away from my child, I don't need filthy people touching my baby.
I would just wash my hands with them. There is only so much you can do to help. If they don't want to help them selfs then they aren't going to be willing to accept the help. If I was you tho I would step my foot down tell my bf his druggy mom isn't allowed around my child and the kids can't if they are going to be disrespectful And wild. You don't need that negativity Around you or your baby.
I don't know why she isn't. She just went to court the other day. I don't know why there's no house routine check ups, and even if there was the grandma would lie for her, that's whats so corrupted about this family, they all conplain about her doing wrong but sits there a takes the fall for her. Its so corrupted, thank god I'm moving out in a week or two!
My father is a probation officer. Hun she should be getting random drug test. Also getting house check ups. Is any of that happening??? If you are to concerned you can also up there and leave a anonymous tip To her p.o. officer.
I don't know the fathers but they come by every weekend to take them, I'm more worried if she gets caught by her probation officer, the kids will get taken away because the court thinks she's taking care of them.
Talk,to,their fathers! !!it's the best if they are actually good father figures. Explain,the situation cause it's true.. she's too old to be dealing with this. Hope all goes well but I'm glad you're worried about them
The do have fathers, it's sad that the fathers pay child support TO THE MOTHER & the grandma gets nothing. I talked to my boyfriend ten million times about sending them with their fathers because they are naughty, the grandma is 82 & doesn't need to be taking care of a 10 year old & 6 year old, especially when they tell her "go to hell", "I hope you die like grandpa" "I don't care if you die". My boyfriend saysthey act like that because they ddon't see their fathers, and the grandma doesn't let them go live with their fathers because sshe's afraid that they will get disciplined, and that's what they need DISCIPLINE so they act right. I'm not saying a full beating, but a couple spanks here and there will change their attitude.
Tell your,boyfriend how you feel... as much as I am with you to report her I also,think about how your boyfriend,would react to you interfering. Try to get her help or something.. first.. she doesn't deserve those kids and poor grandma too.. but then you also have to think,of,the outcome.. what will happen to the kids? Who will get custody? Just think,it through talk,to your boyfriend.. if,nothing,helps and all,odds are against you its up to you. Follow your instincts.
It's really sad how a mother can fall so,low....
It's really sad how a mother can fall so,low....
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