baby book.

[munch2369]

I got a baby book when i was in the hospital and i went to fill it out.. and i cant! It asks things like our reactions when we found out.. we were freaked out and did not want a baby. I cried and he said i could get an abortion. I cant put that in his baby book! So i lie? Leave it blank- like he wouldnt figure that out when he gets older.

[Aly96]

A baby shower isnt important . Dont be sad about that , if someone doesnt throw me one i wont be having one either . Of course i want one but i cant afford the decorations and food for all the people who want to come . My mom said she will try but no promises . Just say you never got to have one . It shouldnt matter :)

[angelAndDragon]

I wrote letters to my son and I filler out what I felt comfortable. My son may ask questions when he's older cause his sperm donor is not the guys he's growing up knowing as his daddy but he'll love it anyways

[showard022]

Well take time. I had allot of parts because I unfortunately hadn't talked to my side of the family for a while and I went back in a filled out. Your a good mother and the baby book isn't the determinate of that. If you feel uncomfortable with it you could go to Walmart and get scrapped booking stuff and make your own with the special points of pregnancy and his life you want to put in the book. :)

[munch2369]

It also,has,a,whole section for our baby shower, but i never,got,one,:(. I cant even fill in his middle,name,cuz we are getting it,changed,and i,want to,make,sure ita final.

[Aly96]

:)

[Aly96]

Yeah you dont have to mention that you thought of abortion you can just write that at first you were nervous and scare but that soon changed . If you leave it blank he may ask why .

[showard022]

Just say you were very shocked and scared being very young at first but fell more and more in love as your pregnancy went on. I felt horrible because I found out in it he emergency room and was in twars. My husband looked at me and said I was making him look back. At the time we didn't really have any were to stay and I was 18. But o got a job the next day and an apartment by the end of the month. I'm sure specially once he's older he would understand. :)