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2136796 tn?1340032997

Baby dropped and is RIGHT THERE!! HELP!

Ok my baby has dropped and this might be TMI but I can stick my middle finger in my vagina only half way and I can feel the baby's head!!! I'm 31 weeks today and I was just wondering should I be concerned about going into pre-term labor???  I have also been losing my mucus plug for over a month now somedays its a lot and somedays just a little with no blood its just a clear whitish color.
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Go to hospital asap sounds like baby is on the way n if nt is vunerable 2 infection good luck xx
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689528 tn?1364135841
Excuse me but I wasn't trying to be negative whatsoever.  

I was just letting you know that you are probably just feeling the outline of your babies head pressing down on your pelvic floor probably. Maybe I didn't understand what your original post was and that's what you meant but you can't come in direct contact with the head if you aren't feeling past your cervix.

AND if other women were to look at this thread and try to feel for their babies and mess around with their cervix it's NOT a good idea. Whether you wash your hands or not you are still risking infection as no ones hands can become 100% free from germs. Ask your doctor I'm sure they will tell you the same thing.
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I cant feel his hair but I can tell where his head is at.. my cervix is still closed and not effaced.... im so ready for him to come out.
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Can you feel the hair too?? That's so weird!
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I know ur not crazy on saying u can feel the bavys head cause I can feel jaces head about 2 1/2-3 inches in there so he is def low.. I can say it is weird being able to feel their head :)
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Oh and I bet you were just looking forward to skydiving and going put on the foot ball field huh lmbo. Well good! Glad everything is lol! I'm only worried about mine cause I have been having contractions and they actually had to stop labor last Friday when I was 34 weeks. I'll be 35 weeks tomorrow. I'm wondering if they have my date off a little.

  
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2136796 tn?1340032997
My doc said the baby is pretty low but that there is NO such thing as a to low of a baby. My cervix is 80% effaced but I'm not dilated. My old doc had told me that I was dilated but obviously she didn't know what she was talking about. lol He also said everything is perfect with baby and that I can even pick up my son and do house work just as long as i don't go skydiving or any other extreme sports! lol
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Wow that's insane I'd be freaking out girl I don't think I could have waited for a Drs appointment lol I wouldst been rushing to the hospital Haha. What did the Dr say though??? I'm really curious. I go see mine tomorrow, thank goodness my babies head isn't that far down! :/ ESP since I have to have c-Sections its scare the living crap outta me!
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2136796 tn?1340032997
FYI I can feel my babies head and the only reason my finger was even up there was because my Husband said he felt something when we were fooling around so I checked it out!! and I know for a fact it was my babies head cuz as soon as I touched it it moved!! and I'm not going to get an infection simply for the fact that I'm not stupid and I didn't stick my finger up there without washing my hands! now go take your negativety elsewhere!
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Now of course I'm 35 weeks tomorrow but it is still possible if her little pumpkin is wanting to make an early appearance or if her date if off.
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Mine bulges out there's no way that's anything BUT a head, its round and hard. Its not sticking out past my cervix AND all that is in there is flesh so it is quite possible to feel the head weather dilated or not.
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689528 tn?1364135841
I'm doubting that you can feel your baby's head. You would have to feel past your cervix in order to palpatate anything. You should also not be messing around like that either...you are taking a risk of breaking your waters if they bulge and there is a HUGE chance of infection. 31 weeks is sometimes too early for even your doctors or midwives to mess around down there.
Your mucus plug can regenerate itself if lost early.
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What did they tell you today??
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2136796 tn?1340032997
Thanx! I really appreciate it.
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That's gotta be.tough :( I'm sorry! I'll keep y'all in my thoughts and prayers!
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2136796 tn?1340032997
yea I can feel baby's head and it is VERY scary! and he's been low like this for about 3 weeks and now I'm even scared to go pee cuz everytime I do I juts feel as if he's going to just fall out! I've been trying to take it easy but its kind of hard when I have a 20 month old running around, I'm just afraid my doc is going to put me in the hospital and then my 20 month old will have to be tossed back and forth between my mother and aunt cuz his Daddy works in the oil field and is hardly ever home. we haven't seen him since sunday morning :/
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It is very weird, mine doesn't seem to be as low as hers but its uncomfortable and scary! I first noticed it when my husband and I were trying to have sex, he said that it felt like it was bulging out and it was hard
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2020005 tn?1628125976
You can feel your babys head?! I have never heard of that but it sounds scary!! Make sure you get it checked out!
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Yes please do because I have been experiencing the same thing the past couple of days and I see my Dr Friday
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2136796 tn?1340032997
Just an update, I go into to see my doc today at 2:50 I will let everyone know what he says after.
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2136796 tn?1340032997
I was supposed to go in on the 9th but I switched docs cuz the other one just didn't seem to care about me or my baby and for this new doc he wants $100 deposit before my 1st appt and I had to push my appt back so I could save up for that cost he is asking for.  But I will for sure call him in the morning and ask him about the baby being so low and see what he says.
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1936698 tn?1333915193
I'd call the doctor first thing tomorrow morning and see if they can get you in sooner. The 22nd is a long way away if the baby is low like that.
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2136796 tn?1340032997
I don't want to go to the hospital just for them to tell me not to worry and still have a big bill to pay. My husband just barely started a new job so we don't really have al the money in the world right now to spend on a hospital bill for nothing. and I haven't been having contractions just some mild lower back pain thats it.
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2136796 tn?1340032997
oh and my baby had already dropped then too, cuz she said that he was just right there! but I think he has moved down further since then cuz now my husband and I can't even have sex cuz he feels the baby's head
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