Losing faith in men..

[Cupcake2191]

So.. Baby daddy & i discussed moving in. For the most part he does already, sleeping here every night, splitting bills etc.. Today he finished work at 4 pm, so he said he would go over to his parents & pack. Calls me @ 4:30 to ask if he can hang out with friends til 6 ish, so i say sure. He pops in to pick up his camera & tells me he's going to a car meeting (car enthusiast bull cr ap). He kisses me & runs out the door. So i sit here for a few trying to piece together what just happened. So, i call him to ask if he's planning on bringing anything over & he says not tonight because he wants to hang with the guys.

Now, I'm at kind of a loss here because we had planned for the move today & he blew me off. I'm at home full time now but that's no reason to yoyo me around, or my time, is it?? He goes out & does wtv he wants. & i sit here waiting around for him doing all the household chores & wondering when in the hell anything for our son will get done.

It's now 11:30 pm & I haven't heard from him in hours. His phone is closed & i have no idea where he is.

I could use some advice on how to approach this when i do hear from him. Help please? :/

[Cupcake2191]

He just got back! I'll keep you all posted. & thank you for your help :)

[Tay9662]

talk to him about not doing what you guys had planned and lying about when he was getting home,and ask why his phone was turned off.?

[mommygg]

Sound like he has cold feet about moving in sit him down and have a talk with him and tell him what u want I dont like the whole phone being turned off thing seems a little weird

[mommygg]

Sound like he has cold feet about moving in sit him down and have a talk with him and tell him what u want I dont like the whole phone being turned off thing seems a little weird

[katngary143]

His cell phone is off ? Well just say hey can we talk about what happened today because I assummed it was going to go this way and it didnt and I just want to see where the disconnect was..I have no problem with u seeing your friends u should see them its very healthy but before u make plans can u just make sure u have nothing to do at home before u leave...idk if that sounds good its just important when u approach him u are calm and kinda come at both sides not just one..communication is very important I have learned this being in a marriage bc I sucked at communicating..when u r single its different u can just be like on to the next one but having a serious relationship or marriage is way different lol