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5432637 tn?1367887080

should have listened

Update well I told him to leave and we talked tried to work it out and we got into it I can't remember if I pushed him first and I know I'm wrong for doing that but he pushed me back like on top of my breast it hurts and now im in my room with my kids and he's in there room. I should have listened when you gordon told me leave get out but I guess that's what I get...
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5458962 tn?1374337013
Sorry for being a debby downer but if u layed hands on him and him on you they will arrest both of you its domestic abuse and there is kids in the home pregnant or not they will arrest both.. it happend to my sister and her husband.. id just cool down and later say hey u have to leave this my home and my kids home if you dont leave i will let authoritys in this
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5432637 tn?1367887080
I'm going to let him know I think it's better for him to get out of my house I've been my familys punching bag all my life I never wanted to be his...
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I agree, it's time for him to get the h e l l out! If you don't want another confrontation either call the police of have the apartment manager put him out. There was one man who put his hands on me in front of my son years ago before I got married. My son was like 5yrs old? Well, he is 13yrs old now and STILL remembers it! I put him out of my house and he spent the next 2-3months begging, pleading, and crying for forgiveness and saying that he was sorry and it would never happen again but it was something that I could not forgive. He did it in front of my son and no matter how much I explain the situation or talk about relationships with him I feel like it will always be in his head and that is NOT acceptable!! Please do the right thing, if you allow this to slide it WILL happen again
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4476664 tn?1361632949
He needs to go.... time is needed. He won't ever appreciate or respect you if you keep settling for ****. Will only get worse. Been there.... **** that sparkle... its not because of him. YOU WILL NEVER BE TRULY HAPPY UNTIL YOUR HAPPY AND CONTENT WITH YOURSELF FIRST. DON'T EVER BASE YOUR HAPPINESS OFF OF SOMEONE ELSE... OR YOU WON'T EVER BE TRULY HAPPY.
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5603486 tn?1372218164
Well all the more reason he needs to be acting right and showing ya babys how to be good people ya kids shouldn't see stuff like that because ur sons going to imitate it and your daughter just my think thats the way love goes you can put him back in jail really fast and he will be in for a while stop letting him hurt you like that!!!
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5432637 tn?1367887080
Last month
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5432637 tn?1367887080
He just got of parole on the 24th of this month. ..
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5432637 tn?1367887080
Love is supposed to be beautiful rocky at times but love is supposed to feel like you're on top of the world at all times not like if you're trash and never good enough....
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5603486 tn?1372218164
Well get him removed from your place someone needs to leave asap love isn't suppose to hurt!!!
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It's a felony to strike a pregnant woman. Just sayinnn
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5432637 tn?1367887080
I don't my oldest son and my daughter saw him push me he always said I had that sparkle in my eyes when he was around that sparkle is gone dead I love him but I'm hurt
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U can call the police n have him removed if he wont leave..  when he put his hands on u even if it was just a push that put u and ur unborn at risk
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Well then have the manager throw his a s s out girl!!!
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5432637 tn?1367887080
He should leave this is my apartment
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5603486 tn?1372218164
U don't deserve anyone putting their hands on you... I think u really should leave u really don't want your kids in that environment...
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You can still leave. You don't deserve this and shouldn't settle for it either
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