aggghhh! why dont men understand??!

[mrsnelson2010]

First hubby threw a freaking fit because i wanted to take a shower. I get out of the shower and come to the living room and our toddler is playing in the cats food and water. I asked him how hard it was to turn on cartoons or something she would watch to keep her out of everything and his response was "shes a kid shes gonna get into everything u can pick it up later"

R u freaking kidding me?!?!

Omfg i could strangle him right now!

[DNP47]

I should add that I still have to ask him to do things, even tho he doesn't complain, it still  irks me that he doesn't take the initiative to do things on his own. He will come get me if the baby is crying, I have to tell him "well did you pick him up? Try changing him? Rock him?" And he will be like oh no, so I will say "then maybe you should try that" haha sometimes men are clueless when it comes to caring for kids.

[DNP47]

Oh man that stinks:/ sorry he's being a jerk to you. You deserve to be able to take 20 minutes for yourself and take a shower. I remember feeling like I had to do everything for my kids bc I was the stay at home mom and my hubs worked. I would never ask him to do anything, and guess what? He didn't do anything! Haha it dawned on me one day that he needed to do a little more, lucky for me he don't complain and he is really good with the kids, but if i gave him the chance, he would let me do it all. I think it might be time for your hubby to start to do more, maybe then watching her while you're in the shower wouldn't be such a burden on him.

[OorahMommy]

My husbands the same way. He doesn't take any responsibility when it comes to our home. He whines that I make him take the trash out lol.

[mrsnelson2010]

She will be 2 in feb. What angered me the most was him throwing a freaking fit because i told him i was taking a shower. And then him saying let her destroy the house u can pick it up later!

(-_-) seriously??

[mrsnelson2010]

The entire time she was into everything he was on the phone. Ugh

[maybaby19]

Wooowww...and hes the adult that should be watching that kid! Not sure how old she is, but she could have drowned in that water and he never would have known! ugh sorrt, this just made me angry -__-

[mommy_21]

I know what you mean. Me an my hubby got into it cuz my toddler was eating cereal an banging on the bowl, he yelled at her because he was trying to watch tv. I was like really jus cuz u r trying to watch something dont mean u get the right to yell at her. I deal with it all day everyday