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2188958 tn?1346444891

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i really don't know who to talk too. i dont have anyone.i dont know what to do anymore. i can't take living with my husband anymore. lately he's been acting like an a** all this week we been fighting and all i do is cry myself to sleep. i hate putting my son through this. i feel like i am alone in this pregnancy. we hardly talk i try so hard to get his attention he's all i have but he just ignores me. im a stay at home wife. pretty soon mom and i really can't take it any longer. idk if just give up on this marriage. im so tired of him. he makes me feel so unwanted.i just don't think he will be a good father to my son. he has anger issues and its just getting worse with me being pregnant. he has never hit me but he brakes stuff when he gets mad. i just don't know what to do anymore. i thought he would be so happy when i got pregnant but he doesn't show it. he only touches my tummy when he says sorry to me after a fight then he forgets about him and me. all i want is to have my son already. i need him so much he's the only one that makes me happy now.. im really starting to hate my husband ;(
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first thngs first....get u n Ur baby to a less stressful situation. my bf n I have been together 7 yrs next month granted I'm only 21 n first time mom myself but about 4 yrs he was an *** all the time similar to your situation so I left...it only took two weeks for him to cone graveling bak but I kept it up for 3 months n by time I came bak he treated me like an Angel that happened three years ago n I feel like we still in our honeymoon phase best thng to do is show them ull leave n then they start to realize what they had n not f it up again pregnant or not stand Ur ground n b able to hold Ur head up high. This is Ur life and u need to decide what environment u deserve to live Dnt let him take that from yu
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Avatar universal
You DON'T deserve to be treated the way that he is treating you!! Exp being pregnant and his wife!! Your going through enough and he should be worshiping the ground that you walk on with each step!!!! Maybe try talking to him but if things don't change I would give him a dose of reality and leave his ***!!
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1961938 tn?1398718101
Maybe try some marriage counseling
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2169899 tn?1354674056
Im sorry to hear that, but if all thats going on and its stressing u out and making u upset then maybe it is time ti.throw in the towel, try and talk to.him first and let him know how u feel, if that doesnt improve anything I would call it quits, he's not appreciating u
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3112100 tn?1379614659
i know how yu feel.... my bf is pretty horrible... we fight all the time... he tells me he doesnt want the baby nd i told him leave cuz the babys not goin anywhere nd yet he still has me here! wen i go stay the night with him he sleeps rubbin my belly nd holding it.. i no he doesnt want it.. he told me IF hes still round he would want a dna test nd ill be glad to give it to him nd even then i no he wont help... he has told me so many rude things bout it i could go on fur along time! he called b*tching at  me fur no reason the other day nd he said if i expect him to be my babys dad then i better expect him to call nd check up nd b*tch bout anything... i swear hes bipolar! theres so much with him nd like i said i could go on furever bout it!
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