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1911870 tn?1345419009

Men.. Vent.

My bf had one simple task today, and that was to be ready by 3 to go visit my mom for easter. It's now 10 til 3 and he hasn't even got in the shower yet. I've been home from work for 30 minutes and I have showered, shaved and gotten dressed. Now am I being a ***** for being mad at him for taking so long? If he would have cut his hair last night like I told him we could leave right now. He does this to me every single holiday and we always fight about it. It gets on my nerves that he
can't be ready when I tell him he needs to be ready.. I hate it. Sorry this is so long, I just venting I guess.
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tell him to get ready an hour before the ideal time, my bf does that with me lol
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1972798 tn?1355549267
Guys are that way. My husband waits til the last minute to get ready... its just a guy thing and you can't force them to change.. sorry!
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U sound like a planner to me, I am too. I over plan everything! When I plan my day I usually try to plan it efficiently and so everyone is best taken care of. I go a little crazy when someone changes plans/makes me late/throws another task in or wants to do it differently! It takes a lot of time and effort to makes sure everyone is happy & everything gets done.
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2026902 tn?1369098398
My hubby takes forever to get ready of course unless its somewhere he actually wants to go too. Even task around the house take him.forever to do. It can be extremely irritating!!
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I wait for my husband everytime we go anywhere! I swear he waits to brush his teeth or put on his shoes on purpose!
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1911870 tn?1345419009
Glad it's not just my bf. Lol. But yeah I left him today. Maybe he'll learn his lesson. Now lets see if we can be on time to our ultrasound in the am. From now on i'm going to tell him we need to leave 30 minutes before we actually need to. Thanks alaysha. (:
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689528 tn?1364135841
Typical man....I swear my hubby takes longer to get ready for things than I do!! It's annoying!
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2006603 tn?1331329327
men dont listen very well. My fiance likes being late i think just because he can never be ready on time
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187316 tn?1386356682
My husband can never seem to be ready on time when we go to visit my parents. So I always tell him we need to leave 30 minutes before we actually do.
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2008858 tn?1343844041
Go without him simple.
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1936698 tn?1333915193
My fiance ticks me off too. It's like men can't do anything right! I ask my fiance all the time to do something and he never does. I keep telling him one of these days I'm going to flick in the nose. (I flick him when he ticks me off)
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Avatar universal
Men just dont get it!! Dont let it get to you... :)
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