Middle Person

[DomTom13]

My child's father and I can't have a conversation anymore without him complaining or bringing me down. Is it immature for me to suggest that all questions, comments, and concerns he has be sent through a middle person???

[median]

I completely understand and at the same point I don't think it's childish at all because in the end who wants to grow up watching to parents agrue..I have told my child father my sister in law could be the middle person he refuses to deal with anyone else other then me unless it's his new girlfriend who thinks could pick up her up and drop her off ..I say if you aren't comfortable and it works for you to have a middle person until things become civil then do so. GOOD LUCK

[proudarmymomma]

Personally I think you should tell him how what he says makes you feel but having a middle person can cause alot more drama between the both of you the mature thing to do is talk out your problems with your significant other