im scared. idk what to do.

[Dimaris]

Im  scared i think next week im finding out the gender of the baby. N everyone wants a boy. I dont care. And my boyfriend says he think i  should start working. Idk if i should.  Am i lazy

[AshleyDMcCaig]

I want a girl but my old man wants a boy, lol but he already has two boys so I'd prefer a girl, he just doesn't want to worry about boys if we have a daughter and when she gets older...

As for the job aspect, I just started working again at about 16ish weeks, I'll be 19 weeks on Wednesday, but my old man is having a hard time finding a job, so it's better for me to be working for the time being. Its kinda hard to find a job pregnant, but it's not impossible, if I were you, I would try for a cashiering position or something light like that, that way you're not stressing your body. And I say, find a job because then you have a little extra money to play with and it'll be worth it in the end. :)

[bakinglovemuffinnumber3]

How old are you? Does your bf have a good job? You guys have your own place, car, etc.? If not, I would def get a job. You're gonna need all the money you can get before baby comes.