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My Day

Today I had a wic appt. Went there this morning and then dropped my kids off to my gma while I went to my college's financial aid office to see about going to school. Left disappointed because the only way I can get financial aid is if I'm married or working,  & I'm a stay at home mom & me & "hubby" aren't married but been together 4 years with 3 kids. So I went to winn Dixie used my wic & tried to get a few other items,  come to find out I'm dead broke,  Can't even afford 20$ worth of food. So I left,  crying. Went to pick up my kids,  went home & good news,  the "hubby" got a new higher paying job today. So I cooked What I could scrape up in my kitchen (beef stew) & cleaned up. . No hubby. Hours pass. @ 8 he texts if I cooked.  I didn't respond,  he was suppose to be here by 5 & gave me no notice, them heb texted "that's why I didn't come home always attitude for nothing". I didn't reply,  because it hurt my feelings.  So now its almost 10pm he's still out wherever & me & the kids are in bed. I had a day.
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7891785 tn?1397532007
Thats lame! Im so sorry girl. Mine use to do that crap. Been together 6 yrs were not married. And finally got him out of his B.S. about a yr or so ago. Once we moved into our own place he finally toom the hint
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Mine is just a straight *******,it's like he doesn't get it.  We've lived together 3 out of our 4 years.  No change
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Definitely sounds like a rough day.. im sorry to hear about it. Treat yourself to something to relax and let everything out. And remind yourself that tomorrow is a new day and it will be better. :)
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7757724 tn?1396279586
Is he out celebrating because he got a higher paying job? Sorry your day was so crappy ):
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I'm sure he is out celebrating with whoever. Not me
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Awe poor baby,  yes what a day. Sorry, hopefully u have a better day tomorrow. I know all about this. Sounds similar to my bd. All these yrs, still no change smh
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7891785 tn?1397532007
Hes gotten better at actually coming home. But hes upset that his bday is Sunday and we cant go out and get f*d up bc im pregnant.. hes turning 25.. tell me why were supposed to go get trashed still..
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I'm sorry you have to deal with that!  As if being pregnant isn't enough to deal with.. That's a hell of a day, at least it's almost over. Here's to hoping tomorrow is amazing for you! You sound like a very strong woman so I know everything will be OK for you. Just remember to have a place to hide the body and a good alibi lol..
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He slept on the couch last night mad because I wastoo tired for sex.  I got up feeling sick as hell this morning, think he asked me if I was okay?  No. Didn't tell me he had an interview, his mom was the first to tell me he got the job then he don't come home. The other night I slept n the couch,  because I didn't wanna b near him.  I feel like I really wanna tie my tubes more, so I can't have anOther baby by him. Being pregnant means crap to him
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4503521 tn?1400858886
Sorry to hear that dear take a deep breathe and pray like beccymarie said tomorrows a new day.
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@dmaxine88 haha! I already know the perfect spot lol j/k
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Grl u gta b strong. Start striving for yourself he will then wonder in the back of his mind. Men are physical beings we as women are emotional creatures. Seems me there is lack of communication.  Yall hve three kids and one one the way if Im correct. Its either "We gt it right or stop with fronting" pray about it but communication seems to b a big key
Speak to him nt yell make a change.  Me nd my hubby did.  Try.... it beats Failure
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Its not communication. Trust me I'm not a soft spoken Person. I chose to ignore him because there is nothing left to say. It just never gets anywhere except an argument.  So I'm at a point with him,  where I  wait to have this baby,  start working & doing mu thang. I'm getting apart from him.  This post really wasn't all about him,  just an overview of my day.
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Thanks ladies for chatting :) night
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7494125 tn?1392745276
Awe that ***** baby girl. I think this will make you laugh a little.  So went to school then went to break around 12 sat in the car to talk to my bf I thought I put my keys in my pocket lock the car then walked about 30 feet from my car looked down and notice my keys weren't in my pocket turn around around around need bam my strap to my keys were outside look through the window and my keys were inside took three guys and about 40mins for them to get my keys out.
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Lol wow. Yes it did make me laugh. But that happens,  pregnancy brain lol
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7494125 tn?1392745276
Lol oh yes
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