well, i am back to the drawing board. I got my cycle on yesterday so I am back to charting and will let everyone know when things change. Thanks for the words and I will be back soon
Your cervix is supposed to be high soft and closed when you are in early pregnancy but this changes for every women in every pregnancy. Dont count yourself out until it is a full blown period. and if you are late that is a great sign!
thanks for the comment, i am on the right track now i think i am again charting my temps and will start the opk somewhere between day 10 and 12. so i will keep everyone posted.
I have never charted before (I don't know about how to check the position of the cervix either ), but thought I'd offer some advice. I would keep charting and check to see if you have any patterns from this past month to the next month. You could have definitly ovulated later than someone on a normal 28 day cycle, especially if your temps are just now starting to drop. If your cycles are off than it will be hard to know exactly when your ovulating, so finding a pattern may help. Look for other signs too, like EWCM. For me, my periods were always crazy when TTC (from going off the pill) but one thing was always definite - exactly 14 days after I had EWCM my period came. It will take time, but your on the right track. After you find patterns then maybe using an OPK might be the next step to find out for sure when you are ovluating. Good luck!
Oh yeah, I forgot to mention I think my cervix is high and really wet down there (I know TMI) if this is any sign of pregnancy?