Nightmares and Insecurities

[Meranda_G]

I'm 21 wks pregnant. Along with some of you I've had horrible nightmares too! Some of them involve me catching my fiancee cheating on me and people trying to steal the baby away from me when she's born. Also, my big baby bump came extremely early, lol. So I'm feeling really insecure because I think I'm sooooo fat, but I'm all baby. I'm scared that my fiancee isn't attracted to me anymore because I have a huge belly and it gets in the way when we try to be intimate or the baby will start moving around. Had this happened to anybody else?

[elivya]

I have had dreams of him cheating but he swears he never has and I have no evidence of it being real so I just ignore them. I hope I havent scared you!! Some dreams are just caused because you think about it and ur insecure and worried its real, I know thats why I dream him cheating when he hasnt done that to me.

[elivya]

Me and my partner have a rule that we cant watch porn, just cause wer both jealous people and it makes us argue like crazy so to be healthy we dont do it. Not lately but I used to dream seeing porn on his phone so I would wake up and check his phone and ther it was. Everytime I dream of porn on his phone I check and its there. actually every dream I have of him doing bad things, it turns out to be true or half true. Not saying your dreams are real im jjst sharing my experience that mine wer real. Its so weird, it happens when im not pregnant too but I like it cause I know he can never hide anything from me.

[JoceyIsAMommy]

You are not alone. I love my fiance but a little over a year ago he was lying to me and betrayed me. It was so hard on me I miscarried our babhy. We worked things out and have been better. However now that I am pregnant again I have been having nightmares he is cheating on me and the woman kidnapping my little Issabella. It is so hard, and if you haven't experienced it first hand its hard to understand. Just do not let it effect your relationship. Remember they are just dreams and in the end you wake up from them and you see you are still together. And about getting bigger. Instead of seeing it as getting fatter, see it as your child is growing. And as for being intimate with your fiance, look at it as a new sexual experience for the both of you. Try new positions and build a more romantic atmosphere. Make it an experience you only have when your pregnant. It will be even more special. I hope this helps.