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No Sex before marriage....

People always be ready to attack the unwedded baby mama....smh
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9987928 tn?1407887995
I'm not married, I'm 23 with a 3 year old, and 35 wks pregnant....
2 kids and 2 fathers and I dare someone, anyone to come up to me quoting  the bible....
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Its on my Facebook page....
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8765505 tn?1399764936
Ahh I see...
I hate slyness... I didn't see the post! But I know how much its annoying.  Sometimes I wish I could pull people through the screen see how smart they are in person!
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This girl was always making indirect comments so I made a comment that she took offense too and we pretty much went at it verbally....she was trying to toss all types of scriptures the funny thing is she's not a virgin but since she's born again she feels as if she can make little sly comments
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8765505 tn?1399764936
I honestly thought this was a joke earlier .... I can't believe people look at you odd for being unmarried.  

I thought Ireland was still old fashioned! The laundrys and homes here only closed in the 90's - but now unwed parents are treated normal.
Though teen pregnancy is common in many areas its still frowned upon.
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I simply told that individual....he without sincast thefirst stone and also go through their Bible highlight their sins and work on ththemselves
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My boyfriend and I who had been together two years and living together got pregnant when we were planning our wedding lol so we waited a year later to get married so my dress would fot again lol. Now we are happily married our baby is going to be 3 in November and we have one due in dec :-)
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* you tell them to kick rocks or fly a kite.!  No need to let someone who thinks they can cast judgement bother you. Just remeber, what goes around comes around. Who knows they could end up unwed and pregnant.
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I didn't get married untill july 28th. Which was only a month and a half away from my due date. I only have 18 days left untill we get to meet our son and i couldn't be happier. And we haven't even been together a year yet. People look at us like were crazy. But hey, when people look down on o
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Im 23 and not married, this is my first baby. And I get looked down upon by alot of people! They instantly look at my hand for a ring when they see the bump. And dont want to talk to me. My bf and I were out the other day and we had this conversation with this guy about our baby and he says how long have y'all been married? I said we're not married, and he says ok nevermind and walked away from us... seriously? Its our decision, my bf wants to get married i dont
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To each his own. Not every lifestyle is for everybody.
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I felt like I was constantly looked at like I was scum for being prego before marriage. My husband and I had been together like 6 years and the wedding date was set for may and we found out in Jan we were expecting. I would always say hey by the time he gets here it will be we will be married. What would make me really mad is when someone would say o so u got married BC u were prego and I'd be like no I got prego BC I was getting married. No matter when in life we are blessed with a child it is a blessing from god. Sorry for the long story lol
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9309926 tn?1405447056
I wasn't married with my first an I'm still not married but I am engaged. Nobody has the right to judge a woman cause she is having a baby out of marriage. Smh not everyone is perfect we all made an make mistakes. Don't let what people say get to you. Most of them probably did things out of marriage as well just let it go an worry about you an your family.
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8364464 tn?1408312392
I expected more than a sentence lol but no everyone is religious.  People make their own decisions (:
baby wasn't planned. Although I'm married I still had sex with my husband when we were just dating. No one can judge because the ones that do always have another thing coming
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9292087 tn?1404610618
Lol I'm always like "well look at you casting stones. Good job, bruh!"
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I'm engaged and people still look at my hand and ask where my wedding ring is and I'm like b itch I got an engagement ring were half way there!
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8765505 tn?1399764936
Yes I don't believe in sex before marriage either its so wrong.. you gotta save that virginity ... thankfully I had an immaculate conception at eighteen. But this time I held my boyfriends hand too long and we conceived.  
:/ pmsl smh
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8856671 tn?1404143983
I'm not married but I look at it like this no one is perfect. Can't nobody judge another person because everyone have something that they are guilty of doing whether it be sex before marriage, drug abuse, etc. You're bringing forth a life so what people say doesn't matter.
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