No Support system

[chiinese]

So ive had a traumatic experience over this past weekend. Friday me and my bf were laying in bed and I felt a cramp and blood came from vagina. I immediately went to the hospital wheee they told me my HCG levels were not where they were supppse to be for mw to be at 8weeks. The pain didnt get any better so I went to the emergency room again and they took more bloodwork and gave me an ultrasound. The lady couldnt even see my little one but my blood work proved there was a baby there. I later gt a pelvic exam and he pulld out some tissue and blood clots.the obgyn at the hospital told me to see my regular obgyn for offical results but he believes its a threatned miscarriage.  After all this my boyfriend goes to school an hour  away I havent seen him since Saturday morning before I came back home. I feel like I have no support coming from him at all. Ive been on bed rest and a few family members have stoppd by even his mom bt since he plays basketball for his school he keeps telln me he cant. Am I being selfish on my end or is there simply no support coming from him. I want him here physically I feel like I didnt make this kid alone but im suffering by myself!

[chiinese]

He does text to ask if im okay. I feel like I need more then that. And I have an appointment tomorrow with my obgyn. My 1st one at that. Ive been on bed rest all weekend sooo im hopefully the baby is okay!

[AMDG]

Sorry he's not the for you! I would definitely be offended if my husband did that. I'm sure his basketball is important, but it's nowhere near the possible loss of his child... It IS sometimes hard for guys to connect with what's going on, especially so early in a pregnancy, but for sure out of concern for you it seems like he should be there. Hopefully he's at least checking on you by text /phone call! Hope everything is fine with baby!