OPINIONS PLEASE...so mad

[Rosa20]

so af came a couple days ago!! I think im  dont trying now tho! I hate the feeling of not knowing all month and then missing my period which only happened this month when i was like 9 days LATE!! then stupi af came!! :( i know my fiance wants one sooo bad and im starting to get nervouse that i cant give him one!! WHat if i can never givce him one....what if it never happens!! Oh im sooo mad and upset..anyone think if i go on fertility pills it will make me get pregnant faster!!?? OPINIONS PLEASE!!

[Rosa20]

welll i have trying for eight months now and still nothing!! I just keep thinking that i wont bee able to give my fiance a baby...i know he wants one really bad and i just really want to give him one! I keep thinking that if i cant give him one that he will end up leaving me or something for someone who can! I know that probably sounds sillly but is it weird for me to feel like that! He loves me an everything im just scared that if we find out we cant have a baby together he will leave...i dont know what to think...i think i have decided to stop trying for a little bit and let it happen if its going to! thanx ladies!

[JustMe0925]

Hi Rosa,  I know exactly how you feel.  I too felt the same way you did when I couldn't hold a pregnancy or get pregnant again at all. How long have you been trying to get pregnant??  My doctor referred me to a fertility doctor after I couldn't get pregnant for 12 months (I also Had 2 m/c and a tubal before this then Just couldn't get pregnant again)..Honestly, it was the best thing that I ever did.  Each women is different.  Some women just need to relax and then some, like myself, need help from a fertility doctor.  I do think that if yall have been trying for more than 12 months seek help from a specialist and they will run test and everything and they will let you know what the problem is..I had a slight case of endometriosis and adhesions in both tubes...I would have never known.  I am now 22 weeks pregnant and found out 5 months after my surgery.  This will be our first baby.  Keep us posted on what you decide to do...

[MOM23ANGELS25F]

Hon, the first thing you need to stop doing is stressing... I did the EXACT same thing you are right now! Everyone else around me was pregnant or had just had a baby and I was so jealous because i wanted to be.. I was so upset and stressed that I couldn't get pregnant.... My body wouldn't let me. But as soon as I stopped and just relaxed.. I got pregnant.. i know it's hard to hear, but stop.. it'll happen..

[leighanne143]

do you have a medical condition that the dr would prescribe fertility drugs?  I would suggest have fun, stop making it all about having a baby and make it about loving each other again.  that's what we did after our miscarriage and we are pregnant again.  it is easier said than done but if you are constantly thinking about getting pregnant then you might be making your body respond differently.