OT: What is it with guys and porn????

[pinkbelle]

Its like they are drawn to look at naked women ... it baffles my mind. I woke up this morning and my boyfriend was down stairs on the computer .. I got up got something to eat and he left for school. So I sit down at the computer and when I click internet explorer all this other pop ups.. well pop up .. all advertising porn sites... So obviously my boyfriend was looking at porn.. ( ive caught him once before) I mean I really don't care but it really urked me this morning here I am pregnant and already dealing with self image issues and hes looking at porn. I know he probably didn't mean any disrespect to me but thats exactly how I feel disrespected. I think its just my pregnanacy hormones cus I never reall cared before... but it honestly upsets me now. Do you think im just being too emotional.

[kris777]

I know what you mean--things are worse and more magnified when you're pregnant and your body is changing.  Hormones could have some to do with it, but he should be extra respectful of you especially during this time.  You should tell him how it made you feel.............how would he feel if he caught you looking at naked men on the computer??  And I mean hot naked men with ripped abs, lol.  If you put it to him that way he may understand a little better because I doubt he would appreciate that.  

Here is a little something funny for you--I got really annoyed by the Deal or no Deal models last night in those skimpy dresses and perfect bodies.  Hahahaha............I am REALLY out of whack!

[evthing4reason]

not that this helps but i couldn't get my DH to look at or watch porn if i put it in front of him. It probably is your hormone making you more emotional, maybe you can talk to him later and tell him how you are feeling about it now that you are pregnant