depressed

[bebe2011]

Why is it when i turn out not pregnant my dh is upset, but when i try to find items to help he starts to get angry and say i feel pressured, and i want to do this naturally. we are doing it naturally, bbt, checking to see if his sperm is any good, vitamins to help with balancing things out. i just give up!

[bebe2011]

I just got a compromise from the DH, we will just have fun, if it happens it happens, we will leave it to god

[bebe2011]

Well dh decided he doesn't  want kids so it is back to bc for me thanks for all your help

[LosingMyMindInGA]

because using things to help makes him feel like less of a man.  He wants to do it naturally so that it reaffirms his manhood!  He will know HE did it, not soem herbs or something. He needs to understand that bbt charting IS doing it naturally...it's helping you to determine when your fertile days are.

[zazou]

Do you have a regular cycle? Have you tried ovulation test kits? I recommend them, they helped me. How long have you been trying? A normal couple can take up to 12 months in conceiving. Relax and try to destress esp. DH. Everything happens in due time :-) Good luck.