update on me

[waitn838]

well ladies...first off i am sorry i havent been on here for so long...im not planning on staying on here very much longer but i wanted to thank everybody for the help, prayers and answers over the last months...

i was so depressed over my mc and my relationship issues that i was hospitalized for a few days for severe depression...i am now taking things one day at a time and working on improving my life...i am still living in nc but i will be moving back to pa in a few weeks...ill be back with my family and friends and im super excited for that

my bf moved back to pa already and we have been taking some time apart...once i move back to pa we are going to try to fix our problems and work towards a future together...im completely out TTC...i need to get my life back in order before i think about bringing another life into it

my hemo appts have gone well...i got my diagnosis and my hemo doc is confident that with lovenox shots during the next preg i will not have another loss...which is good news

i have lost 15 lbs over the last month from all the depression and anxiety over everything...

i see there have been many BFPs and losses...for those who got a BFP...congrats :)

and those who have suffered a loss...im so sorry for your loss....

one piece of advice i didnt adhere to is that after a loss the male will suffer too...just in a different way....i almost lost my relationship because i didnt understand my bf was suffering...i thought he didnt care and boy was i wrong....

for those who want to stay in touch....email me...if you dont have my email message me and ill send it to you

good luck to all you ladies

[LosingMyMindInGA]

I'm glad to see you are getting things on the right track and perhaps waiting to TTC for now is best.  That way when the time is right things will be even more special.   Please keep us all posted on you and how you are doing.  I wish you all the best.  

[mamaof6]

Im so sorry to hear all you've gone through. I know its tough, as I , once again, am going through another loss. Ive been relying on the Lord to get me through this, but it is still a struggle :(   I understand about the b/f thing too. my b/f is devastated by this happening agin! he soo wants a child. he made a comment about how only 1 person called to see how he was, ya know. Im glad to hear your hemo appointments are going well. i knew a while back you were really worried about how it all was going to turn out. Just take the depression and anxiety one day at a time. thats what im trying to do. sometimes its not so easy, but all we can do is our best!  Im glad you get to move back home near your family an dfriends. that will be a great support for you,a nd im sure will continue to lift your spirits!  Good luck hun and be well <3

[KellyA74]

You should be very proud of yourself for realizing that you need to make 'you' healthy first.....You need to be top priority.....Alot of people think that having a baby will fix everything......Sounds as though you are definately a strong person and heading in the right direction!
So sorry for all that you've been thru.....and continue to go thru....but with the optimistic attitude that you seem to have, you will prevail!  :o)