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So upset :(

So not only did I post today about how depressed I was that all my friends abandoned me after getting pregnant but I opened my feelings up to my boyfriend thru text cause he was at work, well he was being all sweet about it but came home all mean n called me a b.***.h out of nowhere and I asked to use his phone (he has an app I can't get on my phone) well he acted weird about letting me so I looked in his phone n sure enough he is cheating. I'm so upset n he won't leave my apartment bc he paid this months rent for me. I can't leave bc it's in my name n my family is 4 hrs away and I'm not calling the cops just bc I'm upset. Why does so much negative things happen during my pregnancy, thought it was suppose to be fun n positive?
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9571159 tn?1419571005
My bf pays the rent but it's in my name also. He doesn't let me look at his phone either which I think is obviously a sign he's cheating sometimes I think he thinks it's ok to talk to other girls because he's paying the bills. Just think about how happy you'll be when baby is here that's what helps me
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8778737 tn?1413827423
So what if he paid for this months rent. Its in your name, get his cheating butt out of there. Tell him to be with the girl he's seeing. Ughhhhh... Its not even a fill moon tonight.

And you know what, I think my husband's cheating too. He refuses to let me even glance at his phone. Yup. THAT kinda guy.
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9309926 tn?1405447056
Try an stay as strong an positive as you can be. Just remember its hurting the baby more then it is you. Hope everything gets better for you
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Thanks ladies, wish he would grow up.  If I'm not down about one thing it's another.
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9309926 tn?1405447056
When me an my fiance fight I sleep in the room with my son. But I never had to deal with cheating. I would give it a day or night then tomorrow try an talk to him an tell him he needs to fix himself or get out. If not then unfortunately you will have to call the cops to get him taken out since its in your name not his. I'm sorry you are going through this
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Girl f**k him ... kick his *** out or just dnt sleep on the room with him ... man act madder than u , wen they kno dry wrong , I'm having a somewhat bad pregnancy but I'm happy wen I'm on thus app talkin to ppl that is like me .... hold yo head up
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