who else lives with there spouse

[keisha2012]

wheather its ur boyfriend or husband because me and my boyfriend only been living together for a week n so far all we do is argue n im still so heated on how hd tried to kick me out even though he said he never do that it was wrong n hurting to even say that n i just wanna get along for a family sake the baby even started kicking when it was going on..

[lizzie89]

i live with my husband and we are not the perfect couple. We have our arguments and now more than ever he cant stand me because of my hormones since i tend to overreact a lot. It gets to a point where I'm the one who kicks him out. Just hang in there since its the first few days of u guys living together it might be harder on him.

[keisha2012]

yes indeed hope so

[Bubuh]

Its just matter of time (:

[keisha2012]

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[jessicaann21]

I've been living with my boyfriend about 8 months, and we had only been dating for about 3 months. And we argue sometimes but I don't think we've ever gone to sleep mad at each other and we always talk about our problems. I think it's a lot of give and take. There are some things he does I can't stand but I ignore it and I'm sure it's the same for him. And these hormones do NOT help any situation. But I love him, and love living with him.

[keisha2012]

yeah im hoping for our child n ourselves n he did mention yesterday how this is so new for him we lived together before but with my mom n he went to his dads n i stayed at my moms now the new year drug in he had got us a place

[Bubuh]

I live with my bf since 1 year we have been toqether for 2Yrs & half .. at first is rough but it will go away every relationship have their arguments nd disagreements yu just have to know how to handle it .. To argue yu need 2 person so if yu just ignore him wen he argues he will stay quite nd maybe he would think nd come around ;) it will get better mama

[Zzzz12]

The first yr is always the hardest  my bf n i would fite cuz I'm a neat freak or for no reason but after u get used to it its all better u guys have to get used to living together n kno each other

[keisha2012]

no it wasnt for me n were expecting his first n my first n i want us to be happy n loving even when we not getting along n i knew he didnt have enough balls to supposely wanting me to leave but idk think cause this is something so new to the both of us

[tkenna]

I moved in with my boyfriend the first week of us dating haha, at first it was just me staying the night then my stuff ended up there and weve been living together since. it was great at first because we were still in our "honey moon stage" we hit a rocky point about 9 months later, he cheated on me. Not physically or anything but he sent his moms best friend an email saying "love never dies" and "i want you" lol and he tried cheating on me with my twin sister and best friend. we broke up and a month went by where we didnt talk and now we are living together again, engaged and expecting our first! Lol point is, no relationship is perfect. you have your arguments and and bumps but you have to choose your battles, is what youre arguing about really worth breaking up over or getting this mad over?

[keisha2012]

i mean he does me good bring me food home when he comes from work make sure i got food when he gone rub my feet n give me massage talks to my belly n kisses been to all our doc appointments its just the arguments

[keisha2012]

yeah he realizies when hes wrong n apoligizes n said that my proably i never see when im wrong i have to much pride and noone can tell me anything i think he thinks im trying to take charge cause he also brought up hes the man so let him be the man n the family n stuff n yeah he told me i had to go n i packed up my stuff n was ready n said he never do that and put my stuff away but yeah the things that sometimes are being said lays deeply on my heart but then says he not gonna argue cause he not trying to have me go into early labor n i guess the baby sensed it cause it was kicking when ww got into it

[mommie2be013]

I been living with my bf for 1yr now!! And all we ever did at first was argue every day...I would always break up but somehow he convinced me not to?...even though I knew we would get into it again! He shouldn't be like that  towards you!! Hopefully he realizes he has someone good  in his life & a bby on the way! We've gone through so many things that i'm surprised we still together.  They say first year/s are the toughest but hopefully  it all gets better (:

[ftm2013]

When I first moved in with my hubby we were together for 4 years before then. I was barely 18 when i moved in and I can honestly say I probably moved out once a week for the first year!! Whether it was me being mad and moving out him telling me to leave him being mad. Fact is tho when you move in with anyone it is a learning experience and like everything sometimes it takes awhile to learn how to make it work......if you want to make it work you two really need to sit down and tell him how you feel/felt when he did kick you out. And tell him what you need from him and see what he needs from you and figure out what makes you two argue and try to fix it together.

[ashkevin13]

LMAO, I love that Control the zipper. that's exactly what i mean! lol And yes it is very true. You really find out about a person when you first start living together, However I think its harder for couples that both were living with family and then moved in together, compared to couples that lived separately on their own and then together. At least when they lived separately on their own when they were first starting to date, you could see how they were in their own home. Where as if they were in a family home, Mommy's keep it clean and yell when its not lol.

[MrsKeener]

Ash, i believe u meant u controlled the zipper haha. me and my husband has been living together for 7 months. been together almost 3 yrs. we have our moments but its usually fine after a few min. i was married in 2008 to a different man and its daylight and dark difference. i was always told u don't truly know someone until u live with them and its true! I hope it gets better!

[ashkevin13]

I have been living with my husband since we started dating at 6 months and that was over 6 years ago. It was great! We got along well, things were perfect. Now that i am pregnant, I hate it. He is dirty, we argue over the littlest things. But I will tell you pregnancy hormones are horrendous for relationships. And i wont lie, with you being pregnant and just starting to live together, it is hard. Good Luck, and remember try not to sweat the small stuff, but put your foot down now and tell him how you feel and how its going to go, because then it wont be as bad after baby. My husband wears the pants in the family, but that don't mean i don't wear pants too :) If you get what i mean.

[FTM2913]

I live with my fiance, we get along great. But my ex of 8 years who i lived with was another story. I know how you feel. Its hard....you never really know someone until you live with them. He definitely shouldnt be treating you that way!

[kiyasmommy03]

Me and mine have been living together for almost 4 years! Its tough at first cause u are realy just getting to know each other. But he shouldn't be trying to kick you out! When we have a dissagrement we go to seperate rooms till we calm down! We don't argue or fight we discuse our problems! We both agreed to never leave mad or go to bed mad!