PERSONAL SPACE

[octomom23]

My boyfriend just moved in with me and my mom... he always wants to be where im at.. like ill be in the kitchen then he wants to go to the kitchen im in my room while hes in his room then he'll come in my room and lay on my bed.. my mom said that he could move in with us we just cant be in each others bed rooms and hes always coming in mine even though my mom said she doesn't want that.. then he closes the door so it makes everything so suspicious.. I love him but I need personal space.. I feel like im being smoothered its so annoying and if I try to tell him to leave me alone alittle he'll take it as I dont want to be around him and then get all angry and upset.. its sooo ANNOYING I need personal space im a pregnant cranky women and I need personal space...

[octomom23]

Yeah its hard because were so use to being around each other and stuff like when he use to sleep over we use to sleep in the living room together so we were always right there but now that he moved in we have to be separated from each other.. my mom is a pastor so shes alil old fashioned just alil but once we get married she doesn't care what we do

[ericatoday]

He might be uncomfortable and feel weird living with you now. And so he wants to be around you the whole time. Having you in the next room and not talking to you is probably weird for him right now. When my bf moved in with me 4 years ago I went everywhere in the house he did he said I was smothering him but I just wanted to he near him all the time its weird having a bf in my house and not being next to him. It will die down trust me. It did with me after a couple months. Just be patient and appreciate he wants to be around you. But if he's not allowed in your room you need to get him on check because its disrespectful to your mom if he does that.

[octomom23]

Its not that hes disrespecting her he just wants to be around me and the baby.. which my mom doesnt have a problem with she said once the baby is born we can go back and forth to each other's rooms..

[octomom23]

I thought I was the only one lol.. like if im eatting downstairs in the kitchen then he'll sitat tthe table and watch me eat like.. ughh I.need space.. I thought I was just being a bad girlfriend or something

[bumpinbaby1995]

He need to get his own spot & stop disrespecting your mom .

[LadyBeeley]

We own our house, but yeah I understand you. My bd, when hes home from work is ALWAYS with me lol. He will not even go to sleep no matter how exhausted he is unless im in bed with him. It's rough because I'm finishing college and have a 5 month old already on top of all the house stuff I do, I never have time for just me. I get a bath maybe once a month where I just leave our daughter with him and shout instructions if she starts crying lol. but i go all out then, with candles and stuff. and sometimes he will even come in the bathroom and sit in there while I bathe! lol

[kkck_myfamily]

I had a situation like that but i wasn't pregnant so i can only imagine how you feel! You will have  to sit down and tell him the rules of being there and tell him about how you really feel because if you dont it will get worse and you'll blow up and it would be to late to turn around now...so really have a good heart to heart conversation and of he dont get it then he may have to find his own space....hope i helped