Pain in the vajayjay

Question

I havent been able to have gd sex for a really long time and I tried to have sex today with my boyfriend and it was the worst yet am so senstive in my girly bits, im runnin myself a warm bath to try sooth the tender pain I have, why does sex have to hurt so much!

jessicaann21 · Answer

Up until a few weeks I would have sex with my boyfriend everyday. But then I just didn't feel like it and I've been trying to now so labor will be easier and hopefully go into labor on my own at a good time but it like hurts ALOT like im a virgin or something. I've tried lube and it still hurts so I'm giving up til I'm like 37 weeks.

Kisa_Kane · Answer

I definitely can relate with my first son i didn't have sex not even after i had him he was one when i had sex with my bd and because of that i wouldn't. get pregnant. again then i had my daughter and my bd wasn't having it but it hurt so bad i stop having sex again i breastfeed so i didn't get a period. so after 6weeks we started having sex again now I'm havin a boy and I'm z22wks and its so painfull to have sex idk wat /makes that happen but I'm not worried because we been together 5yrs and his favorite line is when yah six weeks is up ya *** is mine lmao gotta love him

zaharahnin · Answer

The other night hub and I tried yo have sex im 38wks+2 I was thinking it will speed up my dilation..or atleast thinning of my cervix but it hurts like a son of a b****!! Instead of having fun I almost yelled and cried..I miss being so close and intimate with him. I hope everything will go back to normal.. I hope! :)

Franky91 · Answer

Lol yeah I worked through the pain today so my boyfriend wouldnt b disappointed and I wish I was ordered off sex by my midwife so my boyfriend would stop playin with me and teasing me to the point where I want sex lol

jorden_rose3 · Answer

Sex hurting is just the way your body is. With my first pregnancy, I had sex about every other day up until the night before he was born!!! Didn't hurt for me at all. This time around I'm 25 weeks right now and still having sex. My nurse told me that from having sex a lot, its what helped my pelvis stretch so its why my son came out no problem and no tearing.

KTowne · Answer

Sometimes I wish I COULDN'T have sex, I'd honestly rather not, usually it does nothing for me at all, just causes me pain haha! Pretty much awkward!

jennylynn198817 · Answer

Y'all are lucky to even get to have sex I haven't since June been on pelvic rest bed rest you name it thank goodness for the (good) dreams lol boyfriend has gone crazy I think lol the past few days he keeps telling me just wait till they take the stitches out meaning my cerclage I'm going to tare it up I'm like oh my wow

KTowne · Answer

I'm 38w1d and since I can remember have had to take a bath after sex because it swells right up and hurts, ugh!!  One thing I'm looking forward to getting back to normal after!!