I'm only comfortable on top. I can control everything. I'm bigger now 35+3 & it might take me a little longer to catch my breathe and such, but my man is really supportive and helps out a bit too ;)
I have only done it with my husband once since I found out I was pregnant and I cried uncontrollably after, for no reason, it wasn't even good, lol! So it'll be a while before we revisit that haha!
I had the same problem, try different position and lots of lube. Also more foreplay! !
Just let him no how you feel and what works for you. Like right now I can only enjoy sex if he is on top but that is just me.just do what you feel is right
Try a different position possibly.