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o/t but i might be moving out soon yay!!!
A lady i know from church is renting out her duplex for 550 a month with light and water included she told me she would even lower it to 500 for me!!! all i have to do is find a job close by there because ill be walking to work im keeping my fingers crossed that i get one soon so i can save up for atleast a months rent that i wont be able to work after the csection. I hope i can do this since im on bed rest im not supposed to but i need to get away from this man !!! wish me luck ladies !!!;)
Good luck!! You are a strong woman! Remember too that there are Womens shelters out there that can help and even help you get a job.
I am not familiar with your entire background, but is it possible or have you tried to call or get resources to battered and abused womens' health/couseling centers? They MUST have resources available to aid women (at least on a one time basis?) desperately trying to free themselves from abusive situations? I wish you the best of luck, and hope you take it as easy as possible and I a proud of you for taking the steps to protect yourself and your unborn child. It must be so difficult and you should be really proud of yourself! Your baby is lucky to have a Momma that is a survivor! Keep us posted!!
Glad to hear you found a housing option!!! I don't know how you are going to work while you are on bed rest? Maybe you can still get some financial assistance if you go ahead and file separation papers?
Good for you doing what is best for your baby. Just make him/her your first priority and let that guide your decisions, and you will be fine. It's not ever gonna be easy, but it will get better, and know that you are better off. Good luck!
My mum was in an abusive relationship.. She stayed for the sake of us kids... What a load if rubbish we wished she got out n brought us up by herself.. By all means get out n make yourself happy you are all you need to make your child proud. My mum is still with my dad.. He a little better now but now were bigger he wouldn't dare hurt my mum cause he knows what will happen.. Think your best to tell him once you moved but bide your time n look after yourself.. Don't push too hard your time will come. But if you tell him he will only try to convince you it's a bad idea and win u back.. Hope it all works out for you n ur baby. Hate stories like this there too close to home.
NEVER BLAME YOURSELF, IF HE WASNT GONNA GIVE YOU HIS ALL AND HE MARRIED YOU ANYWAY, AND HE HAS THE NERVE TO TREAT THE MOTHER OF HIS CHILD THIS WAY, HES NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!
YOU MARRIED HIM OUT OF LOVE AND IM SURE WHEN YOU GOT MARRIED HE WAS THE BEST MAN TO YOU.. ITS HIS FAULT THAT HE GAVE UP AND QUIT TRYING AND CHANGED INTO THIS AWFUL MAN
YOU MARRIED HIM OUT OF LOVE AND IM SURE WHEN YOU GOT MARRIED HE WAS THE BEST MAN TO YOU.. ITS HIS FAULT THAT HE GAVE UP AND QUIT TRYING AND CHANGED INTO THIS AWFUL MAN
thanx ammanda .really its my own fault i rushed into things with him with out really knowing him and when i did get to know him it was to late but i know every thing will work out in the end
Thats just horrible. But good idea with the cop idea, thats prolly the best idea! I feel so bad for you hun :( I wish i could come rescue you and your children
his mom is a crack head just like mine and his dad isnt around so hes never had anyone teach him right from wrong
Im not telling him im leaving im going to have the people from the church help me move when hes at work (i know what a coward ) im going to try and get the divorce papers soon. If I have to tell him im moving ill just have a officer com with me to tell him and to be there while i get my things out
Wow this man is a sorry excuse for a man, I swear it!!!! I wish i could give him a piece of my mind.. where are his parents? does his parents know he treats you like this? if they do then there a real piece of work themselves!!!
no he is always telling me hes not going to support me that i need to stop being lazy and get a job (im on bed rest) and that if i dont do something with my life he can not associate with me . hes been yelling at me because the other day i was having cramps and watery disscharge i asked him to take me to the er so he had to leave work well it truns out that the cramps are from the baby growing hes like i left work for nothing!!! stop being a pansy and dont tell me anything unless your bleeding to death!! and i owe him 190 for the day he missed .
Oh im so excited for you hun! i hope it works out, you deserve this, but do not over do it and becareful, i know your Dh is a real piece of work and i honestly dont know what he is capeable of, some men take contro when the woman tries to leave, and its not retty.. Is there anyone around at church or anything that can be with you when you tell him your leaving, and i suggest getting the divorce papers and a restraining order ASAP
well im married so i have to get devorced befor i can get any help from the gov cuz he makes to much money im not sure if ill put him on child support once i get the devorce but i guess if hes unwilling to help at alll i will have too
oh sorry to hear that. at least you'r trying to get out of a bad situation. i do not know much about it but what about state help.ie housing allowance etc
thank you!!!!! hes a jerk lol he cheats,talks down to me and is just plain mean hes greedy with his money and im a little scared to even tell him im moving. I have no family i was in fostercare .
not sure on you'r whole story with the man you'r with. but good luck. and do not over do it. can he at least loan you some money so you can move or even family?
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