Oh I meant to add thank you for listening to my LONG and pathetic vent!
I am so so sorry that you're feeling like this. that man with the tube is VERY lucky to have you...what is it that you do? also for the O- keep on trying, you never know you might hit it!
I understand your pain...I nanny from home, write, and am a SAHM...and every time the little girl that I nanny for is here it's like stressx20 and I just want her to go so I can go back to it being "easy with just the two of my kids"...never thought that would be EASY, but by comparison it is...and it's worse because it's in my own home..I feel like my home isn't a relaxing place anymore and that TOTALLY stresses me out. I. can't. wait. for.this. long. holiday. omg.
there's nothing wrong with having a "snuggle date"....get some hot chocolate, a movie, get in bed together, and have your date there! whenever you fall asleep, you fall asleep so no one is too tired tomorrow BUT you guys get to spend time together....could you postpone your date until tomorrow when you don't have to get up late the next day? (unless you do)...i hope you start feeling better and less stressed soon. I hate when one of my friends is maxed out, and it sounds like you are!
good luck today, hope it gets calmer!
sorry when you don't have to get up early the next day, not late*
lol. I work with ppl with disabilities. These two are the only to i work with who aren't mental disabled they are physically they are all there mentally tho! and Yea i just wish i could do more for him b.c im always working with his sister that i can't interven and things like the not getting a shower and not letting him enjoy his food happen. He can talk to it's really hard to understand him(and his sister tho she much more vocal) so it takes time and they just don't seem to want to take that time. He's always a people pleaser. He needs help going to the bathroom but with hold his pee ALL day bc they staff that we works with during the day tell him its inconvient for her to have to have him pee. It just makes me sad bc he is a wonderful guy!
And ik what you mean about stress when its some elses child. i had my sisters youngest for a few hours yesterday plus our 3yo and MAN i was more then ready to giver her back! haha!
Also i work till Sat till monday so im staying at work for 48 hours. and i would consider postponing it IF it hadn't been for the fact that it was white out here last sat when we were suppose to go and i didn't work! i can't put if off any longer! i need a night of no kids just me and df!
oh and even better still! my stupid brother in law is trying to back out of watching the kids tonight b.c i can't watch his tomorrow b.c i work and so does df! We watch his every weekend!