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Prego = Divorce

I'm trying so hard not to loose it emotionally. But lately my husband has been "picking fights" with me over stupid things ..
I tell him I don't want to fight and he laughs at how upset I get . This to me is so immature .
I almost passed out at wal mart cause he was nagging at me because our almost 2 year old was being cranky when we were registering for our baby shower telling me that I don't take care of her .
I'm almost 30 weeks and just can't handle the stress .. We've been together for 5 years and got married this April ..
It seems to me a man u marry should be more supporting .. and at this point I  hang out with my 2 year old to stay away from his nagging so I won't loose it   :/
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8778737 tn?1413827423
I'm having a similar problem. My husband seems to be more attracted to other girls right now.. And making me feel beyond ugly. And tells girls right in front of me how beautiful they are... Thrn Doesn't understand... That me being pregnant and not my usual size ( I'm tiny normally) and him hitting on other girls makes me feel so ugly. He gets so mad at me, and tells me to stop being self conscious..... HELLOOOO I HAVE A BEACH BALL WHERE MY TUMMY USE TO BE. :(
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Thats not okay, support from your partner is major during this time. If he is okay with putting you under stress while you have the little one growing inside of you he is very inconsiderate and doesnt care too much for you or the baby. If it were me I would tell him to get it together or i'm leaving!
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9535172 tn?1409019789
I'm so sad I havnt slept or ate well in the past 3days my hubby is on a work trip and I went out for lunch yesterday with a Gay guybfriend n he tottaly flipped on me when I told him n he said he dosnt want to me with a women like that n hung up the fone on me! N hasn't called since i am dead worry he is going to leave me or come and wants me to move one with my mother and him not wanting to come which was the plan. But I can't sleep and its 2am here
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I'm sorry that you're going through this. Perhaps sit him down and have a talk with him. Let him know that pregnancy is hard on a woman and you need all the support and understanding you can get. Stress and unhappiness will do no good for your baby. And your baby is your miracle together so it's living proof that you guys love each other and that's why you're married!  As you progress in pregnancy, things might be more and more uncomfortable for you and having a loving support is so important. My husband never argues with me... he makes sure I'm well taken care of. I'm 38+5 so I have body aches and even standing in the shower is difficult for me cuz I can't really bent down to scrub my legs. So he'd hop in the shower with me, make sure I don't slip, and scrub my body for me and give me a massage. I know I'm spoiled but it just made all the aches and sleepless nights so much better! And I never even asked him to do it.. he just did. lol. So work out something with him. And yes, marriage is a beautiful thing!
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Same here, first kid with boyfriend of 4 years and he just can't stop being a jerk.  Gets mad for no reason, does nothing I ask him to and when I start to cry (hormones) he just yells at me even more.  Don't know what's going on but it's driving me insane.
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My husband is exact same! He is picking fights or just making me upset and worried for no apparent reason! And laughs when I'm upset too.
It's actually made me stronger because it's been going on too long and I'm just getting sick of it.
Keep calm and don't stress, walk away and just take are of yourself, your two year old and bubby.
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Hmm girl they are like that my boyfriend of 6 years act like that too picks fights with me over everything then mockscme and lauphs if I get sad or mad sometimess I feel like leaving idk why he acts like that or why they act like that its like they do it on purpose you knoe good luck I too just stay out the room for hours to avoid him and be calm and stress free...
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