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i need help who may be the father of my unborn

im 35 weeks pregnant i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on july 21 and and july 30 i had unprotected sex with another guy who could be the father
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202436 tn?1326474333
The dates that you had intercourse witht he two different guys are so close that it's impossible to say for sure who the father would be just based on that.  The ONLY way you are going to know for certain is to wait until the baby is born and have a dna test performed.  

If you haven't already, it would be best to be completely honest wtih your bf NOW before the baby gets here.  

Many times you can't count on what the child looks like to make a determination.  While sometimes it's blatantly obvious becuase the child favors one more in more than one way.  It's usually not the case.  Genetics can be tricky.  Just becuase a person is light or dark does not mean their child will be born the same way.  DNA is ALWAYS the absolutely best and most accurate way of knowing for sure.  
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My friend was in the same situation as you and she was just like when i see the baby ill know who the dad is cause one guy was dark and the other was really light skinned I think you should talk to him now because if you wait to have the baby and your man bonds with the baby it will be mutch harder to tell him and it will always be in your mind messing with you.
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1194973 tn?1385503904
Impossible to say. Paternity test is the only way you're going to know anything. Does your boyfriend know you have another partner, or that he might not be that father of the baby? If not, it would be something that should be brought up. It would also be good to mention it to the other if you haven't already.
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1536705 tn?1324329047
best thing to do is a dna test when babys born
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