Pretty bad

[Ashdub07]

My husband and I have split and it's been pretty nasty. We definitely exchanged some words, and I don't regret anything i said because he just verbally attacked me out of nowhere. I think that he has another girl already because he had been trying to make things work then all of a sudden he calls me white trash, although he is the one who was cheating. And now I'm pretty sure I just stressed myself into a miscarriage. I've been throwing up til I dry heave and severe abdominal pain and passing blood. No clots yet but its really painful. I have no one to watch my kids to let me go to the ER and I can't exactly take them with me to the hospital. Idk what to do from here.

[sml143]

I've been wondering about you and how you are..I'm sorry to hear that hun :/ I know he's the last person you probably want to call but could your husband keep the kids while you go get yourself checked out?

[Ashdub07]

I called him a couple times. He texted me to f off and shut his cell off. Didn't even answer the call. Such a prick it just blows my mind

[mireyAND]

If you have no choice, take them with you. If it's something serious, hopefully they can stop it or make sure everything is ok. It's better to take them and check on your little one then wait...I hope everything is ok

[sml143]

That is messed up, you are still his wife and have his children and are caring another! You don't have any family members or friends close by or even maybe a neighbor? If not id definitely just take them with me if I had no choice

[Ashdub07]

No I had relocated from another state years ago so my family is hours away and all my friends are like 45 minutes from me I live in the middle of nowhere. I sent my girls godmom a text to see of she'd come out to watch em and she lives an hour out. Hopefully she can.

[sml143]

I'm sorry girl, I hope everything checks out okay for you

[Ashdub07]

Thanks. This just blows. Like if i shut my cell off it's the end of the world but he doesn't want to deal with me so he just shuts his off and I'm having a damn emergency. Crazy

[gatorgrl12]

I litteraly like just posted about your disaperance!
Are you still at the old house and him at the new place. I'm so sorry your so alone right now. I wish I was close damnit I would baby sit! I can't believe he is being such an arrogant *** after him being the one to run his family off! I really hope your little one is okay :( just focus on your babies momma. Your strong. And can do this without him!!!

[sml143]

@Gatorgrl is right, your strong mama! Keep us updated, I'm praying for you!

[Ashdub07]

Yeah I'm at the old house. I am pretty sure the girls godmom is going to come watch them for me. She was trying to round up her kids. Hopefully the wee one is ok. :( I was really not looking forward to being a single mom. Lots of women do it and I'm sure I'll figure it out Thanks :)

[Ashdub07]

I'm headed out now she even got her husband to drive me! :) I'll keep yall posted say a prayer!

[gatorgrl12]

Your in my prayers momma! Stay strong!

[sml143]

Awe that's sweet :) good luck hun..definitely saying a prayer for you and your little one!

[mizy_g]

Just got to the ER with your babies and get yourself checked out

[lady1876]

Hope all goes well hun

[katiemarie123]

Hope everything goes ok I'll keep you in my prayers!

[abigailsmomma]

Hope everything is okay hunn!!

[Alexiafaye]

I really want to know if you're okay ;(

[GordonBaby]

Are you and babe okay?! I haven't been on and I'm like panicked a bit over you!!!! F*** him..what a jerk. Just hang in there luv. Your a strong woman....you can get through anything.

[Ashdub07]

Little one is doing ok, my placenta is starting to come off of my uterus so I need to lay low for a while. I'll have a follow up with my OB Friday. Thanks ladies for your support!

[sml143]

Glad to hear baby is okay!! Now try to get some rest woman, we're here if you need us! :)

[mireyAND]

Glad baby is ok!

[sandy_baby3oct6]

Oh gosh i just read all this and I'm sitting here crying my eyes out for you!! I'm so glad you got up there and i fell like this is gonna get even harder now that your gonna have to rest a lot :( I'm so so sorry your going through all this alone buy you do have all of us here for you whenever you need us! Stay strong momma and f your husband i can't believe he would take vows with you and do everything he's been doing! I'm so sorry you have to go through all this but just keep telling yourself its gonna turn out for the better you can do this without him he doesn't deserve such a good woman and mother like you and he'll realize it one day!! And by then you'll be soooooo far past moved on he'll be one sorry *** mf good luck and please please keep us all updated with anything new that happens :)

[GordonBaby]

Just take it easy....don't stress over him. Your so much better than him.