sex....

[Jessika20]

Okay so I want to have sex with my fiance but every time we do it hurts an is very uncomfortable. Any tips to how I can enjoy it an ease the pain?? I'm 35w 5d

[Jessika20]

I will try that an see

[luxah]

That could be it. Your muscles could be to tight because you're not on.

[SerenityAnnBray]

Same here. I'm 35+6 and we can't have sex for very long because it will hurt. Unless we do alot of foreplay. So if you and your fiancé want to have sex try to do some foreplay. And if that doesn't help try lube.

[Jessika20]

But that's the thing I just don't get turned on no more.

[Jessika20]

I'm not dry. He says I'm actually wetter then I normally am. It doesn't burn it just hurts. Like really bad

[jadeiona1]

I go through this sometimes. I have to be really turned on for it not to hurt so bad.

[luxah]

Are you too dry? Is it burning or just a pain thats uncomfy? Cus same here, no matter the position it hurts.

[Jessika20]

Every time we do it as well I get really bad contractions.

[Jessika20]

We tried going slow an its like no matter what position we do it hurts. We use to be able to do doggy style but not anymore.

[novembermunchkin94]

For me it's only comfortable if I'm on top or we're on our sides. You could also try having your legs off the bed and him standing. Or maybe lube could help. A lot of foreplay helps me too, that way I don't just give up in the middle of everything because I'm tired or out of breath lol.

[luxah]

Take is slow. If it hurts don't push it (literally). I've been havin the same problem and gonna ask my doc about it cus its not just a normal cramp like pain it burns. So I wanna make sure nothings wrong and its just normal cus everythings swollen and all that.