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Hello guys, i just found out im pregnant yesterday

I'm 19 years old soon to be 20 in 5 months, I found out I'm 8 weeks long .. Means baby developing already but I really don't know what to do , my partner doesn't seem as much excited as I am even tho this was unexpected, I'm so confused and lost .. Any advice you ladies can give me ?
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I'm 19 and this Thursday is my 20th bday! I am 13+1 and so very excited. Truly just stay strong and I promise once you hear the heartbeat and see an ultrasound picture of your baby, you will fall in love(: congrats and best of luck! If you need to talk or any advice... I am here! My name is Madison!
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I'm 19 and I'm 19 weeks. When I got pregnant it was a complete shock. We were both devastated and angry and thought abortion was best. After some counciling u decided that was the wrong decision and when I told him I made the decision to keep it, he panicked and just. Cried and didn't eat for a few days it was crazy. But now I'm almost half way done and he's sooo excited. He just wants her here now and it's the best thing to see how much he already loves her. Your man will come around too, it's just so scary in the beginning
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its juat yu and the baby yu need eachother more then ever. brush off everyones negative outlook nothing matters but the safty of your beautiful baby Congratulations (:
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Congrats!! Men are different , i believe  you  can do this even tho its scary its  also  exciting...
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Exact same thing happend to me same age everything.. I did not let my bf make the decision I wanted my baby. He was mad at first but now I am 38 weeks and he is thrilled. My advice would be to make your own decision and hopefully he will cone through for you
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The guys don't really understand what's going on til they can feel the baby moving in your belly and some not til the baby is actually in their hands. I got pregnant with my first when we were 18 and he was happy but didn't really change til she was in his arms
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