Question for all you ladies.

[Cheyenne__19]

I overheard my boyfriend talking to his buddy about the new iPhone I got him, he was asking if there's any way I can hack his phone through mine & see his text messages ... Is it just me or is that curious?
Does it sound like he has something to hide & is worried I'll find out?

[KeziaBrightsea]

I know this is a scary idea, but it has it's merits... try asking him what is going on. Tell him that you heard his question and give him reasons why you are feeling that way. Pregnancy hormones get the best of us and can cause us to think crazy thoughts. Whenever I doubt my fiance, and I really shouldn't since I trust him and love him and have never had cause to not trust him, he understands that my hormones are making me doubt myself and shows me his phone no problem. I have never been jealous until I became pregnant. Now I feel like a blimp and fear he wants a thinner girl. Just saying that to him removes all doubts because he assures me he loves me and our unborn son and will do anything to prove it. I hate asking but, once again, my hormones are whack. If he truly has nothing to hide, telling him upfront how you feel will be great. He knows you aren't snooping and you know he's faithful. If he gets sketchy and angry, then I am not sure. Good luck in that case. But trust does go both ways and snooping is a crappy way to treat your significant other.

[2xmommie]

Try doing a search for her number, anything concerning that number should pop up....
Yea, he's feeling my wrath at the moment.... Talk about being put in the dog house, he has been put out the....

[Cheyenne__19]

Ya I'm definitely going to look Into it then , is there a way I can find out if he's texting her specific number?
& I'm sorry to hear that him, guys can be complete pigs .. that's why it's so hard for me to trust them :(

[2xmommie]

If you feel that way, you should definitely look into the situation.... Always trust your gut.... I just had a similar situation go on with my bf, for the past year(yes, i waited that long to engage in snooping) I've been having an issue with my bf phone.... He was always so protective over it, but never had a lock on it, i just felt that he had something to hide.... Me being the kind of person that doesn't like to snoop, never picked up his phone to go looking for anything.... Although, my gut was telling me something was kind of fishy with him and that phone.... Numerous times I'd confronted him about my accusations, but he always assured me that he wasn't hiding anything.... So, about 2 weeks ago, I decided to ask him for his phone.... He just handed over the phone like everything was A o.k. because he knows that I never go through his phone( I've just never been into that, although he was always snooping through mines).... I got the phone and to my surprise, there were numerous texts from another girl smh.... I was pi$$ed, at myself for not looking sooner....

[Cheyenne__19]

Yes that is true & this ex is crazy .. But the thing is , is she's saying that her son is my boyfriends son & sending him pictures and crap ..  
So annoying, he's got an open profile on Facebook & posted his new number the other day, so obviously he doesn't care who knows his number ?
... But yes I can block it , although she will probably just Facebook message him ..  
I checked his Facebook when he left it on my computer & she hasn't contacted him through Facebook for about 2 months now.
But I know she hasn't given up.
SO annoying & stressful on me :(

[alexx1216]

Not if you do it online, he won't even know lol