Really need some advice?

[guest101397]

Hi, i have placed myself in quite a predicament and desperately need some good advice. Well i had unprotected sex with a friend around early august 09 only a few times and both times i did not ejaculate inside her. then in september she finds out she is pregnant and she has a u/s and the date of conception given falls back to late may early june when she was sleeping with her then and still now boyfriend. since i dont have any great detail on the whole pregnancy due to us not being in any kind of relationship, could anyone please help to reassure me that there is no possible way she could have fallen pregnant to me??

[Sarah61086]

What you need to do is remember when her due date was.
Count 38 weeks back from that date and that would have roughly been her conception date.
If you slept with her during her conception date then there is chance you are the father, but if it was 2 weeks plus before or after her conception date then you are unlikely the father.
Dont count from the day the baby was born incase it was early or late.
But of course if you are unsure then do a DNA test.

[nickieb85]

There is no way that the dates are that far off... I would say let him have the blood test and as long as she wasn't sleeping with anyone else then the test should be definitive.

[guest101397]

The baby was born 26/2/2010 and we didnt sleep together until the 27-7-09. the baby doesnt look like me at all but her partner is getting a DNA test done still freaking out about it do you think the dates are too far off??

[worrieddd612]

here is an article that will ease your fears
http://stason.org/TULARC/child-parent/pregnancy-screening/3-How-accurate-is-ultrasound-and-what-are-possible-sources.html

[worrieddd612]

yeah thats more than likely what happened. they can be a few weeks off maybe even a month but i would say its probably almost impossible for them to be a few months off.

[guest101397]

Thanks, so you think she must have already conceived and was in the early stages of pregnancy when we slept together. Can conception dates some how be a few months off???

[Ashelen]

I agree with worried....if her conception dates are that far from when you had sex with her, you're most likely not the father. HOWEVER...on that note.... you do NOT have to ejaculate/finish to get a woman pregnant. the entire time you're having sex, you are releasing pre-c*u*m and it has more than enough sperm to get a woman pregnant. You may not feel it, but it's there, so "pulling out" before you finish is NOT a way to avoid pregnancy...sorry to lecture, but you don't want to get yourself into another scary predicament, so definitely protect yourself in the future!

[worrieddd612]

if the date of conception is that far off from when you & her had sex & you didn't go inside of her then it is very unlikely its your baby.